ok me and my bf has been together for a yr and 7 days now and i love him dearly...we used to see each other alot like 3 times of every week of every months we r very affectionate and we show it ...but now lately hes been working weekdays 12-5 and saturdays 11:30-6 and i work to so finding time for each other is hard...i lately have been feeling weird it can be due to the time of month wich is coming soon and i am kinda getting sick to i been also working alot more then usual my self , i usually only work 2 days or on during the weekday 4-9 and then weekends at wat ever shift...but these past 2 weeks iv been working like 3 days a weekday and working like 9 -10 hrs shifts on week ends for 2 weeks straight and im trying to get in to college and havent recieve my test results for one of them wen i should have like 2 weeks ago and i lately feel like im drifting away for my bf for some reason im thinking tat i dont have the same feelings for him yet i cant go a day with out talking to him....he notices it to. why am i feelin and thinking this way....i really dont want to be like this its driving me crazy...i do love him cuz if i didnt i wouldnt be crying as of right now while im writing this....i really really love him and i really do see myself with him in the near future ... could i be stressed out about somethings and its affecting me this way... wats ur opinion on this and have u felt this way before ? :( i really do need help wat should i do
2007-03-16 04:58:46 · 10 answers · asked by vanessa g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long shifts, crazy unmatching schedules, worried about a college acceptance - a lot of stress is why you are feeling this way. You obviously love him because you say you are crying about this and because you are asking these questions for advice in the first place.
First, communicate with him and tell him about the stress you are feeling.
Second, try changing your schedules. Sleep when he's at work and have him sleep when you're at work. That way, you can share time together when you are both out of work.
Don't feel bad. Everyone goes through periods of stress and anxiety in their lives. If you work on it together, you will get through it.
2007-03-16 09:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by Coach T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make good decisions now will make your relationship stronger later. You may need a break and start priorities yourself, seperation will help you in the understanding of was it suppose to be. I think feeling and emotions need to be defined, and that can be a tough thing to do... Slow down and work one thing at a time, he will be very understanding or he will drift away... You will get your answer with time. Stay focus on your dreams, and make sure you are taking care of yourself. You are the most important...... It not like old school, the man doesn't have the means to take care of the women. It a hard life ahead if you don't educate your self and stand on your own 2 feet first....Go Full Tilt on what is going to define you...Good Luck
2007-03-23 18:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by cc8462r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
DRY YOUR TEARS .
It sounds like you have a lot going on in your life and it may very well be stress that has your mind racing . Concentrate on the things that are most important to you and place everything else second .
Everyone must work and if it is interfering in your love life what can you do about it ? Find the time to talk to your bf and find out what his feelings are as well before you decide to end the relationship .
Good Luck
C
2007-03-16 05:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I can really help you with this...I am currently in almost this kind of situation.Both of us(my bf) are working everyday..his shift is from 2am - 11am while I'm working from 9pm - 6am.We try to keep in touch with each other every day.Sometimes we go out for just an hour before my shift starts.Also, there is stress both at work and us.I think that you need to balance everything.Stress can really affect you.I suggest that you need to relax and take a break from work and go out with your man.Just the two of you so that you can bond.
2007-03-23 06:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by perictione2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress, stress, stress.. You have every angle pulling not to Mention Aunt Flow visiting.. Take a deep breath. This too will pass. Pat yourself on the back and chill. Your doing the best you can and can only go one foot in front of the other.
2007-03-24 04:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 12:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time dont rush , lots things are going on right now for you . so slow down take a break and see how you two feel
2007-03-24 02:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by beth b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
belive me,it IS the stress of too much work and time apart.. hang in there, dont give up
2007-03-24 04:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take out sometime.
2007-03-23 15:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by Punjabi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...If you don't love him.
Faking it wont help.
Get rid of him if you have too.
2007-03-24 04:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by Peyton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋