ok so my b/r of 6 months and i are ok...
except for the fact that another guy who goes to the same school as i do likes me i see him all the time and even more than my b/f what should i do i need urgent help?????
2007-03-16 04:57:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So, your boyfriend is dating you but sees another girl all the time who likes him. He see her more than he sees you. How would you feel about being dumped for that reason?
If you're thinking about dumping your boyfriend just because someone else likes you too, then you're not really ready to have a boyfriend.
2007-03-16 05:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you must be a beautiful young woman with a great personality.
Either way you still have to display good moral values and keep ahead about you. obviously you like this other guy as well. You would not be having a problem if you did not. This is my theory . You like your boyfriend but you may not be head over heals in love like you thought you were. This guy comes along and you are showing interest as well. You have to make this decision all on your own .... All I can say is the man you are with it cant be that serious if you have developed feelings for another man... Just because you have 6 months in on this relationship does not how ever mean you will marry this man. Think of your future not just for today stop worring and let your heart lead the way..
Love me
P.s. What is ment to be will be
2007-03-16 12:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by savannah_smiles25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are making it such a big deal that you think about it and have to ask someone else to give you advice it is only OBVIOUS you like this other guy...
I can tell you something about young girls that start juggling guys at a young age... they are never satisfied... EVER... then you will have to see more than one person when you get older and you will NEVER be happy...
and in the end you will end up alone...
What can I say... I see girls make this mistake a lot... and happen to see the consequences of it as well...
If you can not be happy and focused on one person, then you don't need to have a boyfriend... you need to have just friends...
Good Luck
2007-03-16 12:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Decide who you really want to be with and drop one or the other. It is too hard to maintain two relationships in the same school. You have lots of time to decide who will be your life partner so switching guys doesnt matter a whole lot. You are looking for who you have the most in common with and who is the best company.
2007-03-16 12:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not let some other guy interfere with your and your boyfriend's relationship. If you don't like your boyfriend any more, then you need to tell him, and the two of you need to go through that before you even consider talking to someone else.
2007-03-16 12:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking this question is that you like that guy a little already. If you are serious about your bf you would not care about him liking you or not. It seems to me you are torn whether to date the guy or not. So think carefully about the guy, if you love your boyfren don't care about seeing him everytime. Focus more on you boyfriend. If you are having doubts on your relationship do something about it..
2007-03-16 12:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by lemonade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If youre doubting what to do..its probably because youre not sure about the current guy.
Dont stay in a relationship just to do it...if you only think things with the current BF are "ok" then move on...
2007-03-16 12:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by Lioness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear the first thing is you hav to decide that to whom you love more ur boy friend or that guy if he feels same for you that you must be with ur boyfriend its true that some guys are attractive but that not means you leave your b/f.thats an different metter if you like the guy most make him your good friend
2007-03-16 12:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by James. H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you, like 15, or something?
6 months is a significant amount of time to know whether you want to remain with your guy or not. Make a decision and choose one as it aint fair to jerk your boyfriend about. Thats if he aint ploughing other birds. If you were my girl id be dicking anything i could slip it in as you seem like a crap girlfriend.
2007-03-16 12:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by nick b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're young. Live a little and have both at the same time :)
2007-03-16 11:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by thingfishy 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋