My girlfriend and I are together for 2 months already. We went to a party and I was with my girlfriend. My girlfriend's friend went also. Some other girl that I thought was hot and is actually my girlfriend's friend claimed that she wanted to have sex with me. She even kissed me. I just brushed her off and told her that I am already dating a girl. I didn't want to have sex with my girlfriend's friend because I am already have a girl. I didn't tell my girlfriend. Did my girlfriend set me up to see if I am always loyal to her only? and plus, did I do the right thing by not having sex with my girlfriend's friend? my girlfriend and I didn't start having sex nor we are not going to start soon.
2007-03-16 04:55:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u did the right thing..next time tell her
2007-03-16 05:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by G?ld?n ang?l 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude if you cheat on your girlfriend you are just an a-- hole. You did the right thing by not sleeping with the girl. But if the girl was not drunk and your girlfriend friend you need tell her. If she was drunk i would just drop it. It does not matter if you are getting any from your girl or not. By loyal, trust me it is better to have one girl that you love and trust then just be having with a girl you dont care about. Because in the time when you need someone to be there the one you have a good relationship with will be. The people that just want to get laid are not there. And for me at least that saved my life. But anyway You did the right thing, you just have to decide if you tell your girl about it. (if it was a test if you tryed to sleep with her you would get a F if you dont tell her a D and if you do an A but only if it was a test) good luck
2007-03-16 12:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by burn409 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did the right thing by not sleeping with the other girl! I would tell your girlfriend that she kissed you though. If they are friends then eventually it will get back to her that the kiss happened. It is better for her to hear it from you than to hear it later on from someone else. By telling your girlfriend it should show her that you are giving a trusting line of communication in your relationship. If she flips out then it is not meant to be for the two of you. It is better for you to know that early on in the relationship!
2007-03-16 12:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by angeladriane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by pushing her off and not having sex with her, but you should've told your girlfriend right off top what happened without hesitation. You should always be trustworthy to the one you love and especially in a relationship. You want her to trust you, don't you? Always tell the truth, no matter what situation it is.
2007-03-16 12:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by - -Ladii TK- - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did good. Do not bring it up to your gf. If she did set you up to see what you would do, she must have security and trust issues. Good choice in not having sex with your gf being you have only been together for 2 months and are probably kind of young. Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. Your mom would be proud.
2007-03-16 12:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you did wrong was butcher the English language when you wrote this question. It sounds like you are honest with your girlfriend, though. No offense, but you could benefit from a grammar course.
2007-03-16 12:01:05 · answer #6 · answered by Christopher A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not Having sex with a friend - you did the right thing
Respecting your girlfriend - you did the right thing
Not telling your girlfriend - hrmmm hard to say.
2007-03-16 11:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by casl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u said girlfriend/girl 13 times..... but u did the right thing even tho every girl who read this knew u WANTED to have sex. but u still did the right thing. i'd kill u if u didnt tell me and i had to find out for myself.
2007-03-19 11:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. As long as you didn't kiss her back there isn't a problem. In my opinion, I would keep this one quiet because it might start an unnecessary fight. If she set you up, that's kind of stupid because it shows she doesn't really trust you.
2007-03-16 11:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by bhanphrionsa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you did the right thing. It is hard to tell if you were set up, but IF they did set you up seems you past the test. Keep it real and don't let temptation screw up your relationship with your girl. You seems like a level headed guy. :)
2007-03-16 12:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by MOM OF ONE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was right not to have sex with the friend. I dont think she is setting you up, but dont wait too long to tell her. Tell her soon. Glad to see you are faithful.
2007-03-16 12:00:27 · answer #11 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋