well I am 13 and my kinnda boyfriend wants to have sex but it seems kinnda early for me. And I dont know what to do. can you please give me advice?
2007-03-16 04:46:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to your intuition. 13 is still way too young sweetie. Dont be pressured.
2007-03-16 04:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON"T DO IT! trust me for the time being it will seem fun. and maybe like it's the right thing since "he's the one" (whatever...) anyways you probably won't think it's fun when you have an STD. Or when your baby won't go to sleep and you have to work a full time job at a thrift store because you couldn't take the baby to school with you so now you can't get into college so hence the thrift store. You both have so much coming for you don't waste those oppurtunities more something that won't out last your future you know what I mean... please if you have any questions ask... sorry to sound so harsh Ijust don't want you to make the mistake too many people do...
2007-03-16 04:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by Suya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kids today are stupid and have no morals...geez...
I'm 16, and I've never had sex a day in my life because I know premarital sex is wrong...
YOu should get yourself together young lady really quick...you cant be 13 and wonder if you should have sex with some guy. Focus on other things that are to be focused on right now!
Wait until you are married, sex is a gift and virginity can only be given once... Live right and not by the ways of the world. You'll be truly blessed later in life.
2007-03-16 04:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by i ♥þîÑk☆ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Besides being illegal it is really really stupid. At that age you can still get pregnant, depending upon the person, and sexually transmitted diseases are non-denominational - they are open to eveyone. Take your time and NEVER DO ANYTHING THAT YOU DO NOT WANT. Guys will say - "If you love me you will do it". Which means that he does not care what you want and if he loved you he would do what you wanted. You need to read that part again. If he loved you then he will do as you want and as you say, not what his hormones are saying. Take your time. If you come from family that has extreme openness then you may soon be ready for something like this, but I have only seen it in families that are nudists or swingers who are open about it to the entire family. not too common.
2007-03-16 04:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please please please do not do this, you are to young and the fact that you are on here asking if you should or not and saying that you are not sure is a definate sign you shouldnt.
If he really loves you he will wait on you.
It is also against the law. I have a friend who fell pregnant at 14 and her life was turned upside down, she had used protection but no protection is 100%. When we went on holidays and all she had to stay home.
Please think about this a lot, I think your first time you will know you are defo ready and it will be very special then. Now if you were to do it you would probably just feel sore and dirty.
2007-03-16 04:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by tranceaddict 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opion Your too young, if you are not sure then it is not a good idea if he is presureing you then he is not for you. If by chance there is a acident and you got pregnant would you want that at 13? 13 is really young to have sex..
2007-03-16 04:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by farmerwoman4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it for him do it if you want to. Even though at your age you are not fully developed and are at more risk of getting a STD. It seems like you don't want to so don't. You have plenty of time don't rush things. If you get pregnant there is a major risk of abnormalities for the baby and a higher risk that you can die in labor. Watch the movie 15 and pregnant see if that's what you want.
2007-03-16 04:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by crazy4orlando2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your much to young to be having sex dear. Wait until your a few years older and make sure you want to have sex as much as the other person. After all your only a virgin once, right?
2007-03-16 05:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it!!!!!! Later on you will regret it you are only 13 why are you even thinking about it? Wake up sweetie. You do it now you are going to want to do it again and again and again. Its just going to seem normal to you. Just wait and see how much you can last with this guy. What if you do it and then break up. Did you think of that?
2007-03-16 04:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by Jaizmin P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 13 it is pretty early for you to be having sex. Don't do it unless you are completely sure you want to. Just wait awhile. You will know when you are ready and right now you are not. When you absolutely know you are ready than at least go to the free clinic and get prepared (condoms, birth control, info, etc.). Don't let him pressure you into it. You shouldn't do something just because he wants you to.
2007-03-16 04:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by marina 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Baby girl you are too young to have sex. If sex only makes him happy, then you don't need to be with him. Keep your innocence because once it's gone, you can't get it back. There are a lot of consequences to sex, I'm sure you know what they are... but you can only do what you want, but don't let him pressure you.
2007-03-16 04:51:54 · answer #11 · answered by **~~ShAwTy Is ThE sHiT~~** 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋