well I am 13 and my kinnda boyfriend wants to have sex but it seems kinnda early for me. And I dont know what to do. can you please give me advice?
2007-03-16 04:45:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are doing the right thing by going to the yahoo answer board for advice. Next you should call Dr. Laura and then you should ask this same question in your high school newspaper.
2007-03-16 04:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by kabarker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say no, 13 is very young for sex, and you should wait until you are older, and more emotionally ready to make that decision. Never have sex with someone because they want to, you have to feel in your heart it is the right thing to do. Tell him 18 years old was when you thought you would be ready, if he is a nice boy he will wait, if he is only interested in that, he will move on to the next girl. Sex is a intimate personal moment that should mean something special.
2007-03-16 04:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by Maria A. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 13... that IS way to early to have sex. Sex is for making babies, Are you ready to take on the responsibility of having a baby at 13? It can happen you know- I see it on here all the time, little girls asking what to do because they are pregnant. My best advice is NOT to have sex and save that part of yourself for the person you are married to. Please don't do it!
2007-03-16 04:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are MUCH too young to have sex tell him NO I would be willing to bet the only reason he IS your "boyfriend" is the sex. He knows you are a virgin and is only out for the "conquest". You mean nothing to him except to be a receptacle for his bodily fluids...don't allow yourself to be used.
2007-03-16 04:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not ready which your not you are way to young you shouldnt even be thinking about sx save it for somneone you really love honey. but if you want to do it. but if you dont tell him no i am not ready and if he keeps presuring you leave him because he doesnt really care about you all he wants is sex but do what you want
2007-03-16 04:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by monica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your kinda boyfriend?
if you have to ask, you're not ready - so just say no. if he pressures you, say no louder and stop spending time with him; any guy who's mature enough to care about you and "deserve" sex with you is mature enough to know better than to pressure you.
2007-03-16 04:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by Megs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u are 13 u should not have sex get away from this lil horny boy!!!! consentrate on school
do not have sex
2007-03-16 04:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey you are too young. Wait you won't be sorry.
2007-03-16 04:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Marilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are way too young, and if you don't know if you want to then you shouldn't even be thinking about it.
2007-03-16 04:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please refuse to do it , and tell him that you are young girl. If he love you he will wait .
2007-03-16 04:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by abotraka777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋