well my kinnda boyfriend whants to have sex but it seems kinnda early for me. And I dont know what to do. can you please give me advice?
2007-03-16 04:43:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO, you don't need to do that until you are completely ready.
2007-03-16 04:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do not do it. Do not let him push you into it.
Having sex is a big deal because of the emotion involved and because there's always a risk of pregnancy, even if birth control is used properly.
Only when you are absolutely sure you are ready should you agree to have sex. That may be in 6 months; that may be in 6 years; but do not rush it.
2007-03-16 04:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush this just because he's putting you under pressure. If your not ready, then your just not ready. Your body will tell you if your ready...put the act off as long as possible. If he's the "one" then he'll not only wait for you, but he'll appreciate you more. Give in, and that 's all you'll be good for in his eyes...
2007-03-16 04:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the that that he is "kinda" your boyfirend means he is "kinda" other peoples boyfriend too. don't give it up to him unless he is ready to commit and there is a real relationship between you two. if you don't have sex with him he will just get over you and find some other girl that will do it. don't waste your time with this loser.
2007-03-16 04:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get onto birth control pills now..
No sex until you are at least 16.
Always have him use a condom to
protect against STD's.
2007-03-16 04:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not comfortable with the idea then DON"T DO IT, if he cares about you then he will understand, there's absolutely NO reason why you should do something you don't really wanna do.
2007-03-16 04:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jamester 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you aren't ready. If he gets angry, then he's not in the relationship for love, he's in it for sex.
2007-03-16 04:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by bhanphrionsa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't do it! if you're not ready, please don't have sex. and don't let him pressure you either. you'll just end up regretting it. wait till you're ready or married. if he's pressuring you to do things that you don't want to do, then you need to drop him!
2007-03-16 04:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by iluvrnb954 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say yu sit down and talk to him and tell him its a little too early.
2007-03-16 04:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by Kelsey C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wanna wait then tell him you will in a few months or whenever you are ready. if he really loves you then he will wait.
2007-03-16 04:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by pinkbabi105 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋