i recently received oral sex but i didnt give. i was wondering if that counts as losing your virginity, and also by getting fingered a lot if he goes really deep.
2007-03-16 04:37:46 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are still a virgin. use a condom
2007-03-16 07:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by chizzylene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you received oral sex, and the giver merely licked your **** in an effort to bring you to orgasm, your hymen would still be intact, and in some cultures you would be a virgin and you could fool a husband on your wedding night, because you would normally show blood. However, if your guy used fingers agressively it could break your hymen (cherry) and you might disappoint your husband on your wedding night. If your friend did use his fingers agressively though, you probably would show blood at that time, which should let you know that you have lost your "cherry" and would not be able to fool anybody who later penetrated you vaginally.
2007-03-20 01:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by lucky7th 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
medically and scientifically, you would be a virgin. To have penile-to-vaginal intercourse is really the only way to change that.
Some people would say that you are not a virgin if you've received digital (finger) sex because of the penetration.
I guess it's up to you how you feel. Play it safe now kids.
2007-03-18 11:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you're still a virgin. Some people will look at virginity in 2 ways, purity vs penetration.
Technically you are a virgin being that you didn't have penetration and your hymen didn't break.
But some other people will say that in essence, although you may still be a virgin, u are not pure because you were touched (fingered, and orgasms)
2007-03-16 08:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by JamDQqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋