She is really fine.
I was talking to her about it over the phone and my
girlfriend overheard it. She said that we were through after she heard it and left the apartment.
What should I say to get back with my girlfriend
since I really don't want to break up with her?
And also since I didn't actually meet the woman?
2007-03-16 04:34:38 · 33 answers · asked by Rodger N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
* Sorry but there isnt anything you can do , you should have thought about that before you were going to cheat on her just leave her alone *
2007-03-16 04:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... you shouldn't have been talking to her about it in the first place if you didn't want to meet the other woman or break up with your girlfriend, there isn't much you can do. Give her some down time... don't go after her too fast... tell one of her friends to keep an eye on her for you. And when the time comes to try to make it up to her... be very sweet and loving. Go to google and look up what to do in your situation. I'm pretty sure you'll find something.... but don't get your hopes up too high.
2007-03-16 04:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by ANDREA G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok well honestly being a woman that would piss me off too.... It may take a long time for your gf to come back if she does because there is a hole trust issue there now... I dont know I guess you could tell her something like you wanted to see if you still got it...LOL but i'm gonna seriously doubt that she will come back... but then it depends on how much she loves you and how long you have been together... but just to let you know if she does go back to you prepare for some mayjor *** kissing..that is the least she deserves....
2007-03-16 04:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to break up with your girlfriend, why are you agreeing to meet another woman for sex? Whether you actually went or not, the intent was there. I don't think there is anything you can say to get your girlfriend back. If she went back to you, she is a fool, because it is pretty obvious that you will cheat.
2007-03-16 04:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by LaraSue 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well thats to late now! You don't deserve your girlfriend and I'm damn proud of her that she dumped you! You can only blame yourself because why did you talk to this other woman in the first place? Sex was at the back of your mind, could you actually live with yourself if you had sex with another woman?
I don't understand this...how can anyone look into the eyes of the person they love and not feel guilty? How??
2007-03-16 04:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by Yollie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should learn a valuable lesson that cheating is often more about a betrayal of trust than actually doing the physical act. You cheated on your girlfriend by talking about a sexual liaison with another woman.
2007-03-16 04:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend is a smart girl, there would be absolutely NOTHING you could do OR say that would make her get back together with you. You were conspiring to to have sex with another woman!! Are you friggin retarded or what?
You're lucky she didn't kick you in your sack before she left. I would have, Jackass!!
2007-03-16 04:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥Mrs SSG B♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sympathies with you...!!!
There can't ever be a turning back of time and with the girl-thing about trust in their lovers, you might just have done everything possible to shatter the smallest hope of reconciliation.
If you have the heart and courage to endure, give it time, good behaviour, all your love and hope that things might change.
I wish you all the best!!!
2007-03-16 04:58:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But it was a plan to meet that woman. If you really were serious about your gf you would have never put yourself in the face of wind.
Parts of our downfalls are not committed by destiny but we share the biggest part of it.
Little faith.
2007-03-16 04:42:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time you learned "girl" rules, if you were talking about cheating, planning on cheating ITS CHEATING!!!!!!!! You need to learn to think through a situation in the future -- like before you make plans to boink someone else think about how your current gf will react. I say pack your junk and move on-- she is done with you and if I was your girlfriend then your butt would already be in the street. -k-
2007-03-16 04:44:36 · answer #10 · answered by kbama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you agree to meet another woman to have sex when she is not your girlfriend. What is wrong with you? What did you think your girlfriend was going to do or say. What you thought she was going to stay you don't deserve her.
2007-03-16 04:50:55 · answer #11 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋