there is this guy that likes me alot. i mean alot. he has liked me for a long time. ans since i broke up with my bf he has wanted to go out with me. but i like this other guy but i dont no if i will have a chance with this guy. i dont really like my friend. im afraid if i go out with him ill ruin our friendship cause he is like my brother. wat should i do.
2007-03-16 04:30:32 · 19 answers · asked by Cowgirl_up_ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont start going all crazy! You dont have a boyfriend but that doesnt mean that you have to get someone else. Dont go out with your friend you will only hurt him. Just be patient and who ever wins your heart wins it. About the other guy just wait get close to him but not in a desperate way. Take things slowly and dont hurt your friend tell him how you trully feel.
2007-03-16 04:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Jaizmin P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him like a bf, then you don't, and there's nothing you can do about that; dating him when you already konw how you feel would only cause problems, and *would* destroy your friendship.
Hold out for a guy you do feel that interest in; explain to the friend that you're sorry but you value your friendship too much to take that risk when you just don't feel that way about him.
2007-03-16 11:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Megs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) You don't like your friend that way. So just stay friends with him.
2) You don't go dating your friend cos you're not sure if you stand a chance with the guy you really like. You'd be a cold-hearted ******* it you did that.
There is no problem here. Wait and see if Mr Like wants to go out with you. If you decide to go out with your friend to kill the time & hurt him eventually, then you will get what's coming to you. Remember, what goes around comes around.
2007-03-16 11:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET YOUR FRIEND KNOW YOU WANT TO BE JUST FRIENDS. THAT YOU JUST DON'T WANT TO RUIN YOUR FRIENDSHIP. CHANCES ARE THAT IF YOU DID DATE HIM IT WOULD RUIN YOUR FRIENDSHIP....SO HE SHOULD BELIEVE IT. TRY NOT TO SAY THAT YOU THINK OF HIM AS A BROTHER UNLESS YOU HAVE TO BECAUSE THE ONLY THING WORSE THEN SAYING YOU WANT TO BE JUST FRIENDS IS SAYING YOU THINK OF THEM AS A CLOSE FAMILY MEMBER. AS THE OTHER GUY....GO FOR IT. LIFE IS ABOUT TAKING CHANCES. WHO KNOWS YOU MAY HAVE A CHANCE WITH THIS GUY BUT YOU WILL NEVER KNOW UNTIL YOU ASK HIM. ASK HIM OUT....GIRL ARE ALLOW TO DO THAT TOO YOU KNOW. GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING :)
2007-03-16 11:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by tatyana17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell the guy that likes you that you just want to be friends for now. Then you ask the guy that you like out, and if he says no, then you should see if you want to go out with the guy that likes you/ If the guy that you like says yes, well, you know the drill.
2007-03-16 11:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by Allison M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have strong feelings for him, leave your friendship as it is. No use ruining it for a fling. Just tell him how you feel, I'm sure he'll understand.
If you really like the other guy, go for it. can't hurt to try it.
2007-03-16 11:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by afwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont feel comfortable going out with him, then dont. Tell him that you dont want to ruin the friendship. Hell understand. Hell keep insisting though, so you have to be consistent.
2007-03-16 11:34:04 · answer #7 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should sit and talk to him about the whole situation. I have a serious friend like that but were just friends.
But maybe after you guys talk about it he will understand and lose some of his feelings for you and maybe help you out with this other guy.
Thanks Alot Jasmine_Robinson_aka_Mess_4_Lfe
2007-03-16 11:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by jasmine_robinson_aka_mess_4_lyfe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is like ur brother then don't date him cause it is wrong to date someone that is like ur brother. and ask the other guy out and give it a chance.
2007-03-16 11:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by brittney m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the one who likes YOu.Because he will take carethat u are comfortable and u don't fall in any trouble.If we go with the ones we wnna go, we are satisfied but sometimes, they don't care about us.So favour the one who favours U
2007-03-16 11:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by Ana C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋