he is caring funny and very attentive, but he never actually says "i love you" we have been dating for a year now and we are going on a mini break to celebrate, everything is perfect but th ILU i told him i loved him and he hugged me and said "your so sweet" he has been in a BAD relationship in the past and somtimes i wonder if this is the reason?? what do you think? has anyone been in this situation, i would appreciate a guys opinion too!
2007-03-16 04:26:36 · 16 answers · asked by lezzers2004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your bf doesnt tell you that he loves you there is not much you can do,but let me tell you this, Having someone that demonstrates their feelings,understanding and commitment to you on a regular basis is the most important thing in the world. To feel loved by someone is way more important than hearing 3 little words. Most people use them way too easy nowadays.Enjoy the fact that he shows you how much he cares and accept that some people dont say it as easy!!!!
2007-03-16 04:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A year seems like plenty of time for him to have mustered up the courage...there's somthing amiss...I would suggest you really evaluate the relationship and make sure you're both on the same level...remember actions speak louder than words...if he loves you maybe he expresses it in a more action-oriented way...
2007-03-16 11:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by November 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me..... Actions are LOUDER than words, why stress on three little words that are completely overrated?
If this guy is as sweet, and attentive and you say he is, enjoy what you have and have a good time in your relationship. Give him time and respect his space.
He'll come around, when he's good and ready.
2007-03-16 11:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was in a bad relationship before he probably still has his guard up. Don't take offense, give him time... you opened the door for him now you just have to let him get the strength to walk through it again. Just make sure you don't slam it in his face like the other girls did
2007-03-16 11:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by tryin2help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a good guy but afraid of going to the next level. Saying I love you is a big step. I would approach him about this and metion it to him and see if there is anyway that he can explain this to you. Hopefully he will say it on your mini break. good luck.
2007-03-16 11:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He maybe said it too early in his last relationship and when the relationship went bad it made him feel cheap. I'm sure he will say it when he really wants to. Don't worry about it.
2007-03-16 11:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by thingfishy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to remember that men dont express their feelings that much and they tend to hold them back. Looks like he feels insecure because of those past relationships. Just keep saying I love you to him. With time, hell let his guard down and say it. Dont push it though.
2007-03-16 11:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well well well look at me under Colleen here , i can see the whole enchilada from this point of view !! hmmm
anway getting back to the question
i love you is over used over rated and can have no meaning
actions are i love you sometimes
2007-03-16 15:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by lowroad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember actions speak louder than words!
2007-03-16 11:34:27 · answer #9 · answered by Playful~Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys have a problem with saying "I love you" because some girls make such a HUGE deal out of it. You're so confusing that it's easier to keep our thoughts to ourselves so that it won't come back to haunt us.
2007-03-16 11:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋