Ive been dating and deeply in love with a girl for 5yrs since highschool. Just recently for a few months we were distant and I had alot on my mind which kind of effected her thinking we werent right for eachother anymore. Alot of this had to do with another guy trying to steal her heart behind my back, she pretty much was seeing him as a friendship and grew fond of him the last few months... The guys a completely sleezball and only wants in her pants, but she doesnt understand this. We broke it off becuase she felt bad for what she did to me and said she needed time.. A week later she sent me a message and said shes been devistated and missed me, becuase I told her I had to completely cut her out of my life, we ended up getting together after 1 week and its really messed me up, do I keep trying or do I let her go, the hard part is we are the best of friends and love each other alot...it also doesnt help that her friends are trying to get her back into the single seen... what do I do?
2007-03-16 04:20:47 · 4 answers · asked by aferraccioli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not to mention that this has made me a mess and I'm devistated...
2007-03-16 04:21:45 · update #1
What do you want from a relationship; physically, mentally, and spirtually? Don't be afraid to AIM High when asking 4 these qualities.
After you determine this, say it out loud to yourself at least 25 times ... then say to yourself daily for 21 days. Then talk to her and let her know this is what you need, can she give this to you? If she hesitates, start looking for these qualities in another woman.
Everyone deserves happiness.
2007-03-16 04:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you each favor something different from the courting. once you're waiting to relax down in a lengthy time period dedicated courting, he's no longer the man to do it with. Given your age, he's likely helped you strengthen up lots. I went via something similar, my bf of 5 yrs replaced into 10 yrs older, did not opt to dedicate, did not opt to stay at the same time, in simple terms loved having a lengthy time period courting courting. I grew previous that, we stayed associates, and that i married some different person.
2016-11-25 23:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should move on becouse if you dont move on your life will keep on fealing misarable. but just move on go hang around with friends keep your mind distracted meet new people that way you can not have your mind on that.
2007-03-16 04:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by Shorty_209 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on there is no pont wasting away ur life.
2007-03-16 04:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋