Should i hit my girlfriend back?

Question

I have been dating my grilfriend for 6 months if we get in an agrument she will get physical. The last couple times she has punched me in my face. I feel like she hits me because she knows I will not hit her back. I think she will respect me if I hit her back. What should i do?

Answer 1

the next time she tries to hit you, BLOCK HER!!!! tell her that hitting is not acceptable in your relationship because you have respect for her to not hit her so she should have the same respect for you. violence is never the answer and really bad habits can form if this kind of behaviour continues. tell her she needs to calm her temper down and talking is the best way to work things out.

Answer 2

Funny you asked. I used to get physical with my boyfriend like that too. The problem is communication. We would yell at each other so the only thing I knew to do was be physical. If she csnnot stop leave her or get her some help. I hd to seek help because I had an issue that I had to deal with and I was taking my personal prolems out on him when I shouldn't. If you want tobe with her give her an ultimatum. Seek anger management classes and get better or i will have to walk. If she punches you in the face, hit her back, but not to the point where you knock her teeth out. Give her a slight but hard push. She will know you aint playing no more.

Good luck. A woman feels like a man should never hit them. It should be both ways.

Answer 3

Never hit back, you are in a physically abusive relationship which is not good for you in anyway. Believe me when I say NO Women in her right mind respects any man who hits her no matter what the situation is, don't give into her abuse by hitting her back. This will create a bad behavior that will be unhealthy for any future relationships you will have, and always think about your safety. If you hit her and she goes to the police no matter her past abuse towards you they will prosecute you beccause you are a man and men are physically larger so she could claim self-defence even though she was the instigator. You need to get out of this relationship and fast before she causes you legal issues and ends up scaring you for life.

Answer 4

This is my take on it Richard. There is no need for a guy to hit a woman. Men are 9 times out of 10 stronger than women just by their frame and design, hitting a woman would prove nothing plus it just isn't right.

I don't see how hitting a woman would accomplish or prove anything. However, if a woman hits a man, then she puts her self in a mans shoes. I mean seriously, are you suppose to just sit there and take it? I say if she is a big enough girl to hit on you, hit her right back with everything you got.

Do you know what you tell a woman with 2 black eyes? Nothing, you already told her twice.

Do you know what you call a woman with 2 black eyes? A slow learner.

Usually I don't support this type of behavior, but if she hits you, she has opened a new can of worms....Sock it to her.

Answer 5

Why would YOU want to date anybody who physically abuses you? It sounds as if you BOTH have problems. HER...temper, YOU....accepting abuse. You both need to get counselling.
When my son was LITTLE, there was a neighbor girl that always kicked him. I told him to ask her to quit, and tell her that from now on, if she kicks you, then you will kick her back. He told her. She kicked. He kicked back. She never kicked again.
But, THAT was children. And truthfull, I regret handling it in that manner. I should have talked to the little girl, OR her parents about HER problem. You two are grown. You both should know better. IF you tell her to quit, that you will hit back, and she hits you again, LAY HER OUT! I mean slap the snot out of her, so she will know that she better NEVER hit you again! But, what are you doing to get hit? Maybe you deserve it. Also, once YOU start hitting, you could end up turning in to a monster one day. You don't want to become an abuser, like HER, do you?
The deep down, honest truth is that no one should EVER resort to hitting another. If she won't quit, truthfully, find your pride and your dignity, and DUMP HER! Move on! It will only get worse if you stay with her. And the day will come that you WILL be sorry.

Answer 6

Leave her and find a girl who is more stable.

If she keeps it up, punching you in the face, there is a good chance you are going to snap one time and hit her back. That is domestic violence and you more than likely will be prosecuted and that will remain on a permanent police record. Which is not a good charge to have.

She seems to have anger problems. Get out now, before you get yourself into serious trouble with this girl.

Answer 7

No, you should not hit her. You should break up with her. How can you possibly have a relationship with a GIRL who does not have the capacity to argue as like an adult? She is childish, has anger management issues, and she does not respect you.
Hitting her back doesn't make things right. She'll probably call the cops on you and then you'll have a record. She also won't respect you. (Not that she does already, because she obviously doesn't.)
Why is she your girlfriend, again?

Answer 8

You could demonstrate your strength by punching through a door or somethiong and then telling her that she should'nt mess with you. It does work. Works on some freaky girls and she'll probably swoon (depends how mature she is). Chances are she hits you cause she's really frustrated or thinks your soft. if she thinks your soft shes probably messing around behind your back anyway.

Shes obviously frustrated though. Grab hold of her, look her in the eyes deeply. then have some serious angry s*x!!
If this doesn't work then dumb her! She sounds fiesty.

bad advice?

Answer 9

I have slapped my boyfriend before but never punched and I have only done iyt like twice in a year. He was drunk and needed a wake up call!!! She should not be punching you or hitting you everytime you fight. Leave her. Dont hit her back. She will not respect you. She doesnt respect you now which is why you should leave her. And you may end up in jail.

Answer 10

Whatever she does, dont hit her back, as that will make things worse.

Either dump her, or if you really want to stick with her persaude her to go to councilling of some sort, or anger management classes. Violence in a relationship should not be dismissed no matter if it is the man towards the woman or vice versa.