is it me?? am i doing something wrong??? like giving off a bad vibe?? and not being approachable or something??? or is it common??? im not ugly or beautiful...but just average....so blening in isn't the problem....
2007-03-16 03:35:10 · 15 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im a guy btw...im just using my friend's thing
2007-03-16 03:36:07 · update #1
Maybe if you quit dressing as a girl....
2007-03-16 03:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I've seen, girls aren't really going to walk up to a guy and ask them out. As the guy, you have it hard: you have to make most of the moves. Find some girl, talk to her, get to know her and then ask her out. I know it isn't as easy to do as say, but unfortunately its much easier and faster than sitting around waiting. After all, you've been trying this for 22 years and it hasn't worked. Change your losing game and good luck.
2007-03-16 10:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by Janice P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong is you are waiting around for a girl to ask you out just go up to some drunk chick in a bar and say something really corny eventually some girl will think it's funny and there you are dating at least for that night.
2007-03-16 10:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally it is the guy who asks the girl out. Not too many girls will approach you and ask you out.
You have to get up the courage to ask a girl out.
2007-03-16 10:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're just way too shy
don't be afraid to make the first move when you see someone you like, the worst they can say is no....if you don't try then you might end up being 23 and never been asked out and so on each year
2007-03-16 10:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a guy, guy's don't get asked out, the pain in the as.s job of facing rejection and cruelty is considered unwomanly and is well quite frankly beynd the meager confidence women possess. it's like trying to complete a 300 peice puzzle with half the peices missing, it's just not possible to accomplish with the materials your working with.
2007-03-16 11:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by nightmare_gorilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry but in society in it is more common for a guy to ask out a girl. as much as guys would prefer to be asked out, it's just more usual. try asking out a girl. you'll recognize your game and see that once you land a great girl, it was all worth it.
2007-03-16 10:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by X-tine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, its perfectly fine. You just haven't met the right one yet. I only got asked out when I was 20 years old.
Take your time and don't worry about it. Cheers! You should enjoy your life!
2007-03-16 10:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by Grace 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most girls don't ask guys out. Perhaps you are the one who should be doing the asking.
2007-03-16 10:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls dont ask out guys inless they really like you even than they dont steping up 2 someone is the best way 2 go
2007-03-16 10:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by aj_p7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just go ask out a girl than
2007-03-16 10:37:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋