This is a really awkward thing after me and my x broke up he hated me so much and he didn't want to talk to me and i thought he had my best friends against me .Then he requested me on myspace and i talked to him but his letter said ashleii i miss u and i really need to talk to you so i thougth yah i guess i might talk to him a little but it just dont' want ann and kate mad at me and we have had issues with this before but he told me that if i told any one that he would not forgive me . Well ever since i have been talkin to him things have seemed like they have been better but i still miss the guy that i cheated on him with . Now another thing is , is that i had to do a little growing up and i had to know how it feels like to have a broken heart and yah know i know that waht i did was wrong by cheating on him but i wish that some one would belive me !!!!!!
2007-03-16 03:06:41 · 9 answers · asked by ~~Ashleii Marii~~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You probably hurt your ex by cheating on him and his pain reflected in his anger towards you. Thin line between love and hate. He now had cooled down and has begun to miss you. If you still have feelings for the guy you cheated on him with, then do him a favour and do not lead him on any further. Tell him your interest is to only be friends with him. Although sometimes this friendship thing does not really work with a guy who still has feelings for you. Even so, you need to tell him of how you still have feelings for this other guy. He just might get mad at you again, but better to be honest with your feelings than to fool and hurt him later. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-16 03:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think that you shoul only talk to him if you have kids from your marriage. The conversations should stricktly be kids related. If both of you do not have any children, than you do not need to talk to him at all. Over means over.
Trust once lost is never restore. He will never ever trust you again. On the other hand you are probably better and cost effective than a call girl. The ??? is : Do you want to be used? Take care, grow-up and move on.
2007-03-16 10:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Don't put the poor sap through no more! I would hate you too. But, it's always better to just find someone totally new and start over.. Good luck! If you cheated, then there was obviously something wrong in that relationship. LET GO!
2007-03-16 10:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about everybody and who believe you al long as you know but who said you had to jump back into a relationship with this guy be friends and by that you never know if this guy is setting you up to hurt you back so just be careful and take a step back and look at the whole big picture
2007-03-16 10:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by mocha27girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there's no problem in talking to him, just dont expect the two of you to have a relationship again because guys never forget when u cheat on them, even if they can say they forgive u, they really dont. i think its best u remain friends.
2007-03-16 10:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by sphe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you no its wrong but you still miss the guy you cheated with come on don't play this poor guy make up your mind if he's talking to you that's one thing but don't start playing him while you still like they other.
2007-03-16 10:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like an emotional batterer. Be careful!
2007-03-16 10:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by school_daze_47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldnt have cheated.
2007-03-16 10:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just lonely and he can't get any better so he is settling trust me you don't want to be second best.
2007-03-16 10:12:11 · answer #9 · answered by jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋