ok so i filled out a survey for our dinning hall at school it was about our take out, but it said additional comments. I decided to write about one of the workers. i am 20 years old attending college where there are few people under 18. i was honest and put my name on it because i wanted the university dinning hall workers to know this was not a prank. I said that "one of the workers has to stop hitting on every girl." Well somehow the survay got passed around to him, he read it and now is asking everyone who comes to get food if they know me. My one friend brought this to my attention who had no idea what i wrote. Now he wants to confront me about this... what do i do, how do i handle this.... my first thought is just to let it go dont do anything about it. but part of me wants to get the manager and then go over and see what this guy wants. ohh i forgot to mention this all happened yeasterday. i am 6' 3" tall and weigh 208 and he is a short guy so i think i can take him.
2007-03-16 03:04:40 · 9 answers · asked by biggsclimes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't worry about it. If he is mad he is just mad about getting caught. He probably won't even confront you about it.
2007-03-16 03:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are on the right track with getting the manager. They wanted you honest opinion when they asked you to do the survey. Just tell the truth during the confrontation and maybe the situation will diffuse itself after it is addressed. He will just keep trying to find you unless you do. At least if the manager is with you then he/she can witness the whole thing and fix the underlying problem. Good luck to you.
2007-03-16 03:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him confront you, make sure you are there in the dining hall when he does or maybe you can confront him first, kinda like a reverse psychology thing, when you do he is going to see your size and may think twice about telling you anything.And if he does start talking sh*t, then you need to just kick his *** all over the dining hall...Make sure you go straight to his boss about it if the guy threatens you..Dont regret writing the survey, you did the right thing.
2007-03-16 03:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probaby was not a smart thing to have wrote that on a survey. You should of known he would of seen it sooner or later. The best thing to do is not confront him alone. Get the manager and have a meeting with them both. Take it from there. Just explain the reason you wrote it down and they will take further action from there.
GOOD LUCK
2007-03-16 03:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing to worry about, you can handle yourself...
bring out your tae bo tapes and practice your kicks. that way if he comes all up in your face all you need to do kick him in the face. which you being so tall , wouldn't take much effort...
just tell him that you think he should focus on one girl. and stop being a dawg...
or say, what are you talking about....
that wasn't right of the note being passed to him. it should have been handled in the proper way, discretely.
because maybe you haven't thought about it, but he is touching your food...... i would eat out of the vending maching for a while if it were me...
good luck with that, and i hope you don't have to go all ape sh it on him.....
but if you do. make sure to take pictures, and send them to my personal e-mail....
2007-03-16 03:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take him. Not like that anyway. You answered a survey honestly. There is no need to take this outside. Tell the manager that you want to resolve this.
2007-03-16 03:11:27 · answer #6 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, are you a male? if you are, say, well i was just jealous you hit no them and i dont. if you are a girl , he cant do anything about it, it would all just be sexual harrasment case there. and really, he ant do anything about it, who cares, why the hell does he even care, and why the hell did you put your real name. he wont beat you up because then you have a lawsuit against him right there. just dont put your hands on him no matter what he does. or else your going to the court room and not him.
2007-03-16 03:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are 6'3'' and over 200lbs then just confront him and let him know it was you that said it. he not proffestional and you disaprove of his actions. once he see that you are a big guy, he will not want to fight or confront you, so just be a man about it. you was man enough to be honest, say what you said, and put your name on it, so be man enough to confront him in person.
2007-03-16 03:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by soto_a81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, mind your own business. Jealous that he's got game and you don't? Why would you get the manager? You're such a tattle tale. Are you actually in 6th grade?
2007-03-16 03:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by gunga_gungalunga 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋