Working on a Bridezillas wedding will drive you to drinking or drugs. They will WEAR YOU OUT!
2007-03-16 02:56:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Yes I do.Star Jones Reynolds is the worst bridezilla I have ever seen!
2007-03-18 05:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by Candi Apples 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do when its truly a bridezilla, asking for ridiculous stuff, but I think its an overused term, basically if you are an engaged woman and have a bad day or have something really important that you want done right, you are a bridezilla apparently, and thats not fair!
My sister calls me bridezilla everytime we have spat, whether its wedding related or not, for instance, we were fixing the bags of candy for the wedding this past weekend, and she kept eating it, and we had just enought to do the bags and no extra, I told her to stop cuz we would run out, and she blew up on me, calling me bridezilla and stormed out---literally! I thought my request was reasonable, but apparently since it didn't go along with what she had in mind I'm bridezilla, and I don't think thats warranted....
now if I expected her to wipe my butt the day of the wedding cuz it was my day like some brides seem to expect, then she would be warranted, but knowing what you want and wanting that to come together in the manner you wish (especially since your paying for it) does not warrant a bridezilla comment.
2007-03-16 12:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by ASH 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I hate the term Bridezilla, I think some people use it to be funny, but honestly, I think its really hurtful and judgemental. Especially when used by women who have not been through the wedding planning process for themsleves and by men who have no clue what planning a wedding really entails.
When you are the one getting married, of course every little detail is a big deal, why shouldnt it be, you only get ONE wedding and with the money spent and time invested planning such an event, I would hope that these girls get each and everything they are wanting. I speak first handedly, when I say that its terrible to not have the wedding of your dreams because I didnt have the wedding of mine.
If you dont like the way someone is acting then either back out of the wedding, distance yourself from her or tell her to back off, but dont go around laughing behind her back calling her possibly one of the rudest names I've ever heard because she wants her special day a certain way.
2007-03-16 10:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if you are a wedding planner...THEN YOU ARE IN THE WRONG BUSINESS. This is one of the most important days of a womans life and they would like for it to be perfect. People who work in the wedding business now that not everybody is the perfect sweet bride. While I loved planning my wedding and had a great time...I would never be a wedding planner because it would ruin all the fun I had during that process when someone is a bridezilla. But in the end all they really want is for the wedding of their dreams to come true.
2007-03-16 11:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by k_reile 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate them with a passion. they are sooo greedy and appreciate nobody or anything people are doing for them. I hate when people are always saying "well its my wedding.." or "its your wedding so do what you want to.." yes it is the couples wedding, but they still need to consider the guests coming to the wedding. inviting someone to your wedding really isnt doing them any favours. they actually have to put out money towards travel, something to wear, a gifts, hotel if needed, sitters if they have kids and cant bring them, taking time off work and so on. they need to consider this before making all their decisions that single guests cant bring a date or in some cases their bf or gf, that guests need to buy all their own drinks, that htey are serving chicken and thats it because they can serve what they want because the guests arent paying for the meal, that its ok to ask for money to help cover the wedding costs because the guesta are eating the food. like common! my wedding was $3000, i let my maid of honour pick out the dress she liked and do her hair how she wanted, i served a variety of foods and all drink were free, my friends could bring someone if they wanted and they were told the only gift we want is the pleasure of their company. did we have everything we needed? no..I was 19 and my husband was 21 and that was only 2 years ago, but I wouldnt never expect my guests to fill my home or pay for my wedding. Bridezillas are up for a big disappointment in the future. marriage is the real commitment and what needs the most time and attention. the wedding itself is such a small part of it.
2007-03-16 11:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, but if you read these boards, it seems they are very prevalent and very much encouraged to be that way by others. Any time someone has a question about etiquette or advice on how to deal with some issue, there will invariably be many who will reply with something like "this is YOUR day, and if so and so doesn't like it, tell them to get lost" or something similar.
And...there is a way to get the wedding of your dreams without trampling on the feelings of your frinds and family, not to mention caterers, photographers and florists.
2007-03-16 10:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! I am a florist and have kindly turned down doing their wedding because I refuse to deal with them
don't you just wanna tell the poor groom to run!!!!??
2007-03-16 10:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by ann s 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't hate them, I feel sad that they have got themselves so stressed out over such a joyous occasion.
2007-03-19 11:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they do.
And the intended groom should take careful note of what is happening.
2007-03-16 12:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋