i know ive asked a lot of questions about it latley but were great together until one little thing happens that he doesnt like and he gets really mad and upset. the person i lost my virginity to he hates and i accidently brought it up last night because my cousin was asking me about it and now he says hes not mad at me but hes mad period and i dk what to do anymore help me please.
2007-03-16 02:51:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have gone through the same thing with my bf before. It sounds like he is just insecure and when you bring it up it makes him feel that you miss it or you would not be talking about it. Just let him know that you are happy with him and that you want nobody else. My bf got over it. He pretty much grew up and realized that I love him. Be careful though.. Jealousy can be a good thing but too much of it is a sign of an abusive person. It just sounds like he needs to grow up and lose the insecurity
2007-03-16 02:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well every argument you two can get through is a little more you know about each other and makes you stronger as a couple. Relationships are hard these days and they take alot of work and working together. There must be communication and compromise. Try to work things out and be open with each other.....every couple argues, its natural, if you didnt then I'd be worried. It just means you care about the other person and you're concerned. So try it out, if it doesnt work out then he just may not be the one for you and you will have to move on with your life even though it may hurt. But you have to think of the long run and how you want your future. Everyday is a learning experience and all you can do is learn from things!When things get rough...just know life will always go on!! With or without him! If moving on is the best thing for you to be happy then suck it up and get rid of em! You deserve onlyl the best, if he doesnt give you the best, someone else will! Good luck
2007-03-16 03:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he really likes you or loves you, he would not be mad. Have you asked him why he's mad? Maybe he feels you like the other dude more than him. Other than that, I have no clue. I'm 14, and I have only been out with 4 guys, all of whom were jerks.
2007-03-16 02:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either dump him or tell him to get over it because that was the past and it has nothing to do with him. And if he is always mad about every little thing you say or do, he is insecure about your relationship.
2007-03-16 02:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by krimpets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well actually, he is upset and jealous. What you could do is to reassure him that you love him and appreciate the opportunity you had of having him in your life. He will eventually get over it. Hang in there. The fact that he is upset means that he has strong feelings for you. You go girl.
2007-03-16 03:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've already answered your question...He's always mad period! Do you want to be around someone who's always mad at you? If you do, then stay. If you don't, then tell him it's over and move on to happier days.
2007-03-16 03:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he whants u to make a move first than go for it but if u are a virgin than wait and he might not be the right person 4 u!!
2007-03-16 02:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The both of you have got to sit down and talk this tru, let him explain to u y he reacts this way, c if there is anything that u can do to resolve his feelings and if that doesnt work out well...........dump him
2007-03-16 03:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by Crazilicous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to go to anger management or seek some sort of counseling. that is one of the most destructive unresolved emotions one can live with. you can't help this from the outside in. good luck.
2007-03-16 03:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to have a serious conversation with him about it and let him get his feelings out,
2007-03-16 03:03:38 · answer #10 · answered by jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋