However, we always seemed to have some sexual activity when we went out. He left to go back to college (which was only 1 hr away) and he told me he would be back. I thought he would call and he did but it was several months - I think it was about 4-5 months at least. We he did call once again he did not leave a phone number so I could call him back. I had found someone else anyway that would actually call me and take me out on real dates. Years later I ran into this guy and he told me that he had always loved me and when he got back I was gone and he could not find me. When I asked why he did not call he told me that he did again and again but my messages were not passed on to me. He also told me that when he was away at college he was busy just going out and having a beer with the fellas. When I talk to him he talks about the sex we had a lot. Now he has given me phone numbers. He kills me with his words because I still care for him but I became very leary of him. HELP ME!!!!!
2007-03-16 02:51:01 · 3 answers · asked by formy p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had close to the same problem with someone. Stay away or figure out a way to alter the way you look at him. In my situation, I now look at my guy as just a friend and honestly I don't want it any other way because I could never trust him again! It's definetely a booty call whether you want to believe it or not (men don't think like us).
2007-03-16 03:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he missed the booty calls, not you personally. If he "always loved you" he would have actively seeked you out.
2007-03-16 09:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by MBE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell you to stay away from him ... it sounds like he's just using you for sex.
2007-03-16 09:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋