people think i look very good attractive sport nice person,but am alone ! i have no girlfriend! is it tru what my friends say? cause they change girls like gloves,and now am confused!
2007-03-16 02:43:49 · 5 answers · asked by mamostano 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me & the hub are answering this together so u'll get both points of view :)
personally, yes, even though girls won't admit it, a bad boy is more interesting than a nice boy. i mean, i've been with nice, decent guys but after awhile, i got bored coz there's no excitement. girls do like being kept on their toes occasionally and for the guy not to give in all the time. i mean, everyone likes a fight once in awhile, if u're too nice, trust me, your girlfriend will run away.
the hub says, yeah, as a guy you should try to be a bad boy once in awhile. u're single, just testing ground but it doesn't mean u'll be bad forever right? once u find the right girl, then u can stop being a player and u can show her your nice true self. of coz being bad, u will attract many types of girls but hey, it doesn't mean a 'bad' girl is bad and vice versa.
hope we've helped :)
2007-03-16 02:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by sexxxy_sabs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like nice guys but everybodies opinion of nice is different. Some people care about looks. Others about money. Even others care about different personality traits. Just because you are kind doesn't mean that they are attracted to you. Your friends probably get more girls because they present something more attractive than you do. Your problem is that you are doing things with the intentions of making girls happy. You should be making yourself happy. You don't have to try to impress girls that you like. Do what you want and be yourself. You don't have to care about their feeling or what they want because most likely they don't care about yours. you doing that is exactly what makes you a "kind." The fact that you go out of your way to be nice is not attractive to alot of people especially at a young age (you sound pretty young).
2007-03-16 02:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl worth her salt ever ends up with a jerk. Keep being nice, and you'll find a worthy girl to build a relationship with. No strong relationships can exist when there is a jerk in the picture.
2007-03-16 02:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Its absolutely not true. Girls that like bad boys are normally flirts. Besides if they like bad boys they'd probably dump the boy if they see another boy behaving worse.
You should just be yourself. Maybe the girls are too shy to approach you. You should find opportunities yourself. Approach the girl you like!
Cheers
Hammy =)
2007-03-16 02:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by Booyah! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course. i'm a girl too, and....( smiles )
i like their "move" on the bed
2007-03-16 03:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by Piyo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋