But then her friend told me that she said I pressured her into
it. She is coming over again tonight. How can I have sex with
her without her feeling pressured?
2007-03-16 02:40:11 · 7 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Usually when A guy lets his glands do his thinking for him he doesn't realize when he's pushing or pressuring her ,,,,
Better be ware that she and her friend don't decide to accuse you of something more sinister ,,,,
2007-03-16 03:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her decide on whether or not the two of you will engage in sex again. If she is not able to tell you directly if she felt pressured into having sex with you than she may not be mature enough to be having sex at all. Sex is a major thing in life, you should talk with her and let her know that her friend told you about it. See what she says and go from there.
2007-03-16 09:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by ♥shannon c♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her initiate sex. In fact, tell her that if she feels you are pressuring her, then it's up to her to start the ball rolling.
Verbal flirting and sex talk is fine, so long as it remains light with no requests, but let her make the decisions. You may find she just doesn't want to; in that case, you just have to accept it. It's better than being a sh*t.
2007-03-16 09:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She may be coming over to dump you. If she felt pressured, then you may not be looked at in the same way now.
2007-03-16 09:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her make all the moves and see how far she takes it. Be very romantic and open but let her take the lead.
2007-03-16 09:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by puckbunny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thou shalt not commit adultery, says the Lord.
2007-03-16 09:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by godelectedme 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a psycho...I would steer clear
2007-03-16 09:44:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋