what do you like in a girl?
not just personality wise but every thiing
2007-03-16 02:34:59 · 19 answers · asked by stupidblond94 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has to have smarts for starters.
She should believe in Jesus and pursue her relationship with God first.
She should be forgiving along with giving.
A sense of humar is also a must with an excelent smile to back it up.
She can't be materialistic.
I would have to find myself attracted to her.
Loyal, definately loyal.
There should be some things in common but not too many, I wouldn't want to date the female version of me. LOL
Has to be ok with a guy who likes to shave his head.
I could go on and on but that should do.
2007-03-24 02:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by rfurgy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look..every woman has the same basic plumbing...and for a guy to worry about this is stupid...
granted...men are attracted on a visual basis more than anything else..so..the superficial side of men..which they try to drown out...will sometimes pull in those girls that me are either:
1) out of the girl's league-that includes most of men when it comes to the Halle's, Beyonces, eva mendeses, etc..
2) all skin chicks/maxim/FHM or the like...
those are the girls we have to filter through first..because they will never happen...it doesn't take long....
but then we see a few girls at school/work and they look extremely prett, have a great personality, good sense of humour, isn't "easy" but equally doesn't play stupid games, drop hints, manipulate or try to control the guy...
we will respect you for who you are if you are willing to do the same...
don't try to domesticate us or treat us like a housepet...many girls think they can train their men...BS...we're not dogs and WHILE...the punani does tend to get our attn...to use it for that reason...as a reward...is controlling and deceiptful...
we want you to know that we're willing to walk through fires for you...but we're not here to be your "girlfriends" so you can vent...get yourself a fair share of girlfriends or vent to your sister/mom etc..
we are here to fix problems..we are here to help you achieve your goals...
it is not a question of being insensitive...it is just that men are not women...we will never achieve emotionally what you expect from us...we'll listen to you..DON'T NAG.. say it once nicely..if you insist on complaining...know that you will probably taste your own medicine as well..
oh..one more thing...we don't and cannot read your mind..we also have NO interest in learning to do so.....so again...no hints, nothing so subtle we don't pick up on it...don't expect me to remember all of your favorites...I will remember a few..that is pretty much a BONUS ;) not the minimum requirement...
this is just a little bit about guys...
oh and yeah...your interest or knowledge in sports with your avg guy...will go far...
I am sure that girls who hate sports are VERY aware that sports and the men who follow them...are there in front of the tv..DAILY/WEEKLY/MONTHLY/YEARLY...
2007-03-23 22:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl who knows what she wants in life and who she wants, not who she THINKS she wants. Too many girls and women are indecisive. One that doesn't go for the bad boys and the cocky jerks. Also, a girl who doesn't let her friends dictate everything she does & doesn't back out at the last minute. A girl who has ambition and wants to go somewhere with life, too many girls don't give themselves a chance to become successful and strive to do well for themselves. Dependent women are not IN anymore (and never were with me, a girl who can support herself and take care of herself is always better).
2007-03-16 09:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by Dusk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No testosterone here, but I had to answer. Each guy will like something different in a girl, and vice versa. Chances are you are thinking about a "particular" guy, and what may please him. Best way to know, is to ask him! Then see if you two are compatible.
Be true to yourself, and don't try to be "what he likes". Let him get to know the REAL you, and not later consider you a fraud. Otherwise, he will find it difficult to trust you.
2007-03-24 09:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mocha Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, personality is 90% of the attraction. While a super-model may turn my head, if she's empty or shallow, there's nothing there to hang a relationship on.
2007-03-16 09:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good smile. Not brown eyes. Not morbidly obese but not anorexicly skinny either. Good Speaker. Makes me laugh. Good Chemistry.
2007-03-16 09:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by SomeGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1~eyes 2~smile 3~butt 4~legs 5~what ther mom looks like/give you an idea of what they will look like
2007-03-16 09:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for me, I love girls who can dance. So that during our first night together, she can show me her sexy moves... hahaha
I love girls who have,
1) long brown hair
2) Big eyes, small nose and lips
3) Small shoulder blade
4) Big Boobs
5) Nice ***
6) Average size, hour glass shape
7) Speak with class
2007-03-24 07:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh I'm a girl. Cant answer this one ;-) Just trying to get some pts to get to level 2.
2007-03-24 03:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by It's about the Spirit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The way she smiles and looks, the composition of her eyes and her eyebrows... and slopes on her body, of course :P
But if you ask me, personality and intelligence are above all these.
2007-03-16 09:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by Tayfun T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋