Can it b real love??(SERIOUS)?

Question

i m in love wid a guy n he too is(atleast accrdng to me)...the whole thng is dat i met him through a chat room...v chatted a few days n then he proposed to me to b his girlfriend...i accepted coz i thought i wud irritate him n just for fun. but later on i discoverd love for him...v started chatting over phn n dat too for hours...all the time he calls me..he lives in another state which is abt 1200 km away....now aftr 10 mnths of us being together...i m really confused abt him....wat shud i do?? is he cheating on me? shud i trust him?? wud v ever b able to meet n liv together?? though i really admire him bt still i feel quite awkward wen my sis n i discuss our bf...wat shud i do???it is really affecting my life coz just one mnth b4 he has shown me his pic which was nt gud n i luk pretty.....v luk mismatched bt still i luv him.......wat to do?? shud i keep him n care for him or shud i move on in life leaving him....plz help it's serious...n our age is 17 yrs....

Answer 1

dear you are too young to think about living together.You have a big way to pass on inyour life.You should proove as a good child to your parents,as a trustfull friend to your friends and last but not the least you should proove yourself what you are.study well,be a good individual and gradually you will come to know what you want now leave everything and concentrate on your studies n career.Wish you good luck nd think everything with your brain it will speak truth nd never listen to your heart it may cheat you.God bless you.

Answer 2

If your instincts are giving you warning signs, then you'd better listen to your instincts. Since you have never really met eye to eye, you don't know if he's actually a sexual predator or can be a very abusive partner. And how do you know that the picture he sent you is really his image? You don't, and I'd listen to that inner voice that's telling you to walk away.

Meeting in a chat room nowadays is truly risky. It's easy for someone to make false statements in a chat room, because all you actually see is a monitor and keyboard. That's how sexual predators lure young children or beautiful women, by pretending to be someone that they aren't . But of course, law enforcement uses the same technigues to capture these sexual predators.

If you truly want to meet each other, meet in a public place, and take a friend with you, never go alone. If he insists that you come alone, than that alone is a red flag. Meeting in a public place with a lot of people and bringing along a friend ensures your feeling of security, and doesn't accord him an opportunity of attacking you while alone.

But the bottom line here is... listen to that inner voice that's giving you doubts. When you have doubts, than you'll know it's not right.

Answer 3

Your story makes it sound like it's a life or death issue. You're 17. Enjoy the friends you have around you or online. But realize that long distance relationships rarely ever work. Nothing can substitute for being together face to face. So enjoy the time you spend online with your friend, but don't expect it to be more than just an online friendship.

Answer 4

Enjoy being single because youre still young. There will be better and not so better guys to come in the future. At youre age, you still have to enjoy youre life without being intimately attached with another person, especially to someone that youve only met in the chatroom. The love that you described, its sounds very *immature*.

Answer 5

Things will be clear to you once you meet him in person. A conversation over the phone and through chatting is a lot different on a conversation you'll have once he is in front of you. One can lie over the phone and on chat, letting you believe that they are all true. But on a conversation made face to face...you can tell by his body language if he's lying or not.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

move on with your life and leave the failure gay man alone. he has absolutely nothing to offer you and moreover he is not and can never be in love with you, he is only after your destruction. KEEP YOUR DREAM ALIVE AND DONT BE A GAY

Answer 8

At your age, this is infatuation and not love, because if its love then you don't have to ask others to find it out. You should give it some time and wait for things to settle down.

Answer 9

it can be real --- my lady love me very much and she is 15000 km away (i love her very much as well) ---- your problem is that it is difficult for either of you to move closer --- in this case it may have to remain a distant relationship until one or both of you are able to move and maintain somewhere to live close to each other --- you have my best wishes

Answer 10

I think you should break up with him. being totally serious. I've been there..done that,,a couple times. trust me,you dont wanna get involed..and now that yu already are..get yourself out.