My guy i'm in love with for over a year. Is going to ask out my BEST friend. He likes me too. But he thinks that it wont last with her. So i will be next. Or he seriously said what about i go out with both of you at the same time? what should i say
2007-03-16 02:16:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends how low is your self esteem? If you don't think you are worth someone that treats you with respect and dignity then feel free to share a man.
Also, why do you have such low criteria for a best friend. I would not have a friend that would say yes if my man were low enough to ask her out.
You have multiple issues here and all of them lead back to YOU not thinking enough of yourself to demand the best in friends or men. Think about it. You need to do some serious work on you before getting involved with anyone.
2007-03-16 02:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way! Tell him that you are nobody's second choice. It's either going to be you, or her, and that you prefer it be you before her. And that if he dates you both at the same time, that's called greed, and that it would also break up a great friendship between the three of you. No man is worth losing a friend over.
2007-03-16 09:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by N0+ 3@$!Ly &R0]{3n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh My. Give the guy the flick sweety. He's playing with you.
If he doesn't love you now he never will.
He can't have his cake and eat it . That's exactly what he wants. Find someone who likes you and only you.
Have the strength to say its either her or me??
You seem to be a nice person but alittle on the naive side.
There are more fish in the sea waiting for someone like you.
Good luck
2007-03-16 09:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by aotea s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he's going to get what he can with her and then move onto you once he's done with her? No way... I think it's time to say bye to him and look for someone who will treat you as you deserve... and no dating both of you, then he uses you both as he pleases until he's done with one or both of you, that will really tear your heart apart :( You deserve better! Your best friend shouldn't even consider dating him knowing how you feel either!! :(
2007-03-16 09:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lil Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's a player and you deserve better!
If he treats you like this, why would you want to go out with him? You'll most probably end up hurt and this will suck for you and your best friend.
Tell the jerk to leave you alone!
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2007-03-16 09:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by anything2getin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE** NO....that's your best friends and best friends don't date there friend's crushes boyfriends or ex's everyone knows that....That's how you lose friends really fast there are tons of other guys out there to talk to
2007-03-16 09:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by Miss. Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him that he a dog,and you should find out if your best friend is really your best friend,cause no best friend of mine would go out with the boy i have a big crush on.and no boy is worth losing a best friend.
2007-03-16 09:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by pecancaramel16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that guy is a jerk. dont waste your time on him. yes, you may be in ''love'' with him, but its not worth it. especially if hes going to do that to your BEST friend.
2007-03-16 09:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by fight for love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. Get rid of the b/f
2007-03-16 09:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by Mary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't worth of you and your feelings. Find someone who will love only you.
2007-03-16 09:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by vdt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋