i think im the most unlucky person on earth. im 15 and not a boy friend i feel so depressed as through my earliear questions there is this guy who is quite good comrs in my bus only on thursday classes and i like him but have no guts at all to tell him
2007-03-16 02:14:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been there, and even though it seems like centuries ago, I vividly remember the feeling you are talking about. I deeply sympathize with you. I don't have an answer for you, except a couple of points for you to keep in mind.
1. Boys your age and even much older can be incredibly dense when it comes to relationships and stuff. They mature much later than Women do, so it isn't uncommon for a boy to be totally oblivious to any opportunities in that department.
2. What ever it is that you do, do not do anything that is out of your normal character, don't try to impress him with a lie, because then you will have a whole lot of "tap dancing" to do to straighten out the lies.
3. Wouldn't it be sad if he likes you in the same way, but because you are both extremely shy and terrified to make any kind of a move, neither of you will even know how the other feels.
4. Bottom line, regardless of all else, be true to yourself and nothing else matters.
2007-03-16 02:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi.
Love doesnt know any age.
that can skip all the talk about your age.
Personally.
I believe that when love is about to touch your heart you will really feel it.
it's not like you saw a guy and you liked him and that's all ... NO!
its more in the eyes .. you can feel it when you look at the eyes of that person .. Love can be a strong wake up call or a very quick look straight to the heart. or even a very little sign .
you can talk to him (nothing is wrong with just talking) but remember one thing ( Do Not talk to him as you like or love him )
I Believe that the best love in the world is the one comes from a very good friend relationship.
because you will be aware of everything he likes or dislike.
Give it some time. ( you still have a lot of Thursdays to meet him)
and remember that you are so wanted for a lot of guys .. so just think about what is the best for your future ( the far future ).
think about the best and I believe you are wise enough to find the best for your self.
Hope it help you.
wish you all the best.
Good Luck.
2007-03-16 02:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know hearing this will be hard to believe but I SWEAR to you.... life is the absolute hardest right now because you are a teenager. It honestly does get better when you get older. Right now, things hurt more because of your age and inexperience so you don't know how to handle the hurt. Everything seems hopeless but trust me hon, you will live through it and look back and say, "Phew! That sucked but I sure do wish I knew how good life would be for me now back then!"
Boys at your age take SOOO much longer to mature socially. You can't depend on them to make your life happy. In fact, when you are about 19-20 you will be more like 23-24 and they will be only like 16-17 still maturity wise. Realize that true love and happiness isn't coming to you until later and just enjoy the ride now of fun and flirting but don't put so much importance on boys now.... believe me, the pain isn't worth it! Enjoy being a kid while you can... cuz you will NEVER get your youth back....Life it up sweetie. Life goes fast and again, enjoy the ride! Good luck!
2007-03-16 02:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by lordydordy42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may think that you are the most unlucky person on earth but you are not. trust me! You do not have to to rush to find a boyf. I have been with my boyf since I was 15 (now 18). Its hard especially as you are growing up. By not being in a relationship you have nobody to answer too. You can do wot the hell u like! But if you like this guy then go for it don't be shy. Boys like confident girls! Just be honest with him! the worst thing he can say is no!
2007-03-16 02:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u r not the only one in the line of not geting a b/f at the age of 15 as i am also of 15 and i also don't have a b/f and if u like some one then go and tell him or ask some one to tell him or find anyone else whome u can tell ur fellings and share them
don't feel depressed at all
2007-03-16 02:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Aashi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in the concept of luck. Life is not a series of accidents, but a series of incidents. Don't tell the guy you like him. Just be pleasant. Smile. Look your best. Strike up an interesting conversation. He'll figure it out on his own.You don't need a boyfriend to be a complete person; they're nice, amusing, etc, but really just gravy...a nice side order!!
2007-03-16 02:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be fine, just take the plunge, and maybe he likes you to but is just as scared as you. You will never now unless you try. If he says no it is not the end of the world. There will be so many guys in your life it will be hard to keep up. Good luck, stick with it.
2007-03-16 02:23:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun you are only 15,dont be in a hurry you have all the time in the world.if you see a boy you like ,start talking to him,tallk about school or the bus ride,im sure you will find someone
2007-03-16 02:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by patj773 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just flirt with the guy. You are too young to worry about a b/f. Have fun with your life. Get involved in school activities. Go to school ball games. More to life than a bf. Boys are just jerks any way.
2007-03-16 02:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by Mary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 15 and having no bf means the end of the world to you? Grow up, you're a child still.
2007-03-16 02:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋