well y boyfriend and i have been together for 9months an weve had our problems but i reallly love him he feels the same but i havent been able to call him back fo about 4 nights in a row we talked during the day when werent at school but hes fed up an he say its ova shoud i try to get back with him or jus move on???? : (
2007-03-16 02:14:00 · 15 answers · asked by MisSunDerSt0od 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry sweetie, but it sounds like it's really over & you need to move on. There are plenty of other guys out there :)
2007-03-16 02:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by Happy go Lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now, I'd just give him some space and to be alone, and after a few weeks, have another talk to see how you both stand. If it's still the same, then there is nothing you can do to change his mind, and you can start to move on.
Giving him time means that you both will have a lot of time to think on everything and find out what it is you both want - just rushing forward could be more damaging than what you hoped.
2007-03-16 09:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lief Tanner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's moving on, you should probably do the same. It will hurt but it's for the best in the long run. You can;t force him to be with you, and if he's not into you as much you can;t make him be. Cheer up, things can only get better :] X
2007-03-16 09:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by anything2getin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you had tried to explain to him why you couldn't call him back for 4 consecutive nights? If you had a good reason, well, then you should drop him like a fly if he still refuses to listen. But if you did something you shouldn't have to him, well, that's a whole other different story. He'll be the one ditching you then & trying to get back to him won't work if you lost his trust.
2007-03-16 09:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you should learn to type. Chat speak is the lowest common denominator of communication. Can't blame him for leaving you just amazed he hooked up with someone like that in the first place.
2007-03-16 09:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2007-03-16 09:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what does he want to do? give it time for a little bit.... and if nothing happens then do move on
2007-03-16 09:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by janie_2345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on - set him free . If he comes back , then I hope you have someone better to introduce him too !
2007-03-16 09:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by NotSoPerfect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, obviously he doesnt like you anymroe. u only went out for 9 months
2007-03-16 09:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by pancho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say pray about it... but yea. If u believe that a guy can give another guy it's needs (or whatever) ... w/e i cant answer this b/c i dont believe in same sex dating or whatever u wanna call it...
Men are made for women!
Women are made for Men!
2007-03-16 09:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by 18 weeks pregnant 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋