please give me an answer?

Question

what do you think about dating single women with children?
I wonder if your a single man with no children what do you think? Does it matter if she has children?

Of course theres no right or wrong to this question, this is pretty much a yes or no and why? question.

Answer 1

i woudlnt date one or the other. my roomie is dating a guy with a daughter (he has part custody) and she is always having to change things to accomodate the kid, not to mention the kiddy proofing of the apt...its a hassle (one that i dont intend on dealing with)

Answer 2

I am a single mother with a child. It shouldn't matter if a woman has a child or not. I am dating the most wonderful man in the world, he has no kids, and he treats my child as if she were her own. If you don't like kids and this is something your not ready for then don't do, all you will end up doing is hurting the child and the mother.

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with dating someone that has children from a previous relationship whether it be a single mom or a single dad.Children are a blessing and should be cherished.

Answer 4

See jeepguy's answer and make it the best answer. He's got a jeep, so he knows what he's talking about! I wish I had a jeep.....I've always wanted a jeep....Did you know that when a jeep person sees another jeep person on the road that they wave to each other? No kidding, it's a fact! I borrowed my Chic's jeep for a few days and was kickin it on down the road with the top and doors off. Every single guy or girl that drove a jeep waved to me! It really made me feel special, and not short bus special, I'm talkin deep down special!!!!

Answer 5

I married a mother of two young children. I had never
been married before. We have been married for 37
years. They have been the happiest years of my life.
I guess it matters to some if the woman they want
to marry has children....but in that case I would encourage
them not to marry. It's a package deal and men need
to recognize that......but the package can really be
great.

Answer 6

i have a child but my partner loves her so it depends if you could handle being second in her life because her children will always come first also you would have to get along with the child or children if you can do both of those things the 2 of you will be fine

Answer 7

it's tough..
but I did....
she died in '92
and the kid(s) grow up and we could have grown together..

kids come first if they parent takes care of them of course and the man will most likely take a back seat, so to speak, so he has to respect and understand this and most dont these days bc it's an easy hit and run kind of thig for most i believe...thats another reason this society is in big trouble and more women are turning to other women, etc

Answer 8

I don't think so at all. If the relationship gets serious, then you should take some time and remember that now the kids have "to come into play". That is not a bad thing at all.

Answer 9

My mother always told me never to date a woman you wouldn't consider marrying. You need to ask yourself if you like children. If it doesn't matter to you, then date her. It's all a matter of personal choice and is different for everybody. Personally, it wouldn't matter to me.

Answer 10

It shouldn't matter,but at times it will. It's not easy to involve yourself w/ someone elses child. What if the child gets attached to you, then it doesn't work out? Then you dissapoint two people. Good luck in your choice, it's a toughy!

Answer 11

If you love her then it should not matter but she does have children they will be her first priority, she may also look to you to be supportive of her in many ways. Overall it should not matter!