it was the day i was very happy i had proposed to a girl and i thought the girl liked me because ..it was the day before i saw her and i found her very much noticing me..but i think it is because i am very fat she rejected me .......i need some guidance.........i also need some tips on loosing weight and yo get some babes...........pls help
2007-03-16 02:04:44 · 11 answers · asked by Shreyas S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to get a feel of her pulse, if you think that she has rejected you just because you are fat, leave her. The life is full of other tragedies than just being somebody's love and there are lot more there who will accept you with all what you are.
You know what, i am a lean, dark complexioned guy and I used to think that people like me are not acceptable in the society, especially by girls, I am unattractive. But then one day a beautiful girl proposed me, I thanked to god and now i think that it really doesnt matter how do you look like, what matters is your behaviour with others. So be nice with everybody, even with the girl who left you.......not like a lover obviously but just as a good person. You will soon get a girl with beautiful heart, trust me....
God Bless You.
2007-03-16 02:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Sam- the "big boss" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah Shreyas, why would you propose to a girl that you only thought liked you. Honey, just because you aaw that she was noticing you does not mean that she want to date or marry you. Possibly, you had a booger and she noticed that and could not help but stare. Your being fat has no bearance on her rejecting you. It appears you jumped the gun. Have you dated? How long? Why do you think you need to lose weight? If someone loves you they accept you for all flaws.
2007-03-16 09:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by sunset 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first off, whoever that was that said you cant get who you are like because youre ''fat'' is full of crap. Body type is not the only thing girls look at.
If you want to lose weight, then you can eat healthier and exercise. Its a lifestyle change, not just temporary.
And, i know that you really like her, but if you ask her out again, and she rejects you again, dont keep asking her. She will just think you are getting weird/annoying.
good luck
2007-03-16 09:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by fight for love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't propose to someone you think "likes you." That moment is reserved for someone who loves you. If you are truly overweight, get really honest, and ask yourself what is really eating you. You are most likely using food for comfort. Start with a ten minute walk...even a one minute walk. Add one minute each day. In a year's time, you will, I predict, be walking for more than an hour, and be several, many, many pounds lighter. I'll bet the house your "head" will feel lighter, too. Drink lots of water. Eat when you're hungry, but make healthly choices.
2007-03-16 09:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone shouldn't love you because of the way you look, they should love you for who you are. You are lucky she rejected you. If you are serious about wanting to lose weight, then you should participate in aerobic exercise for about 30 minutes a day and eat right.
P.S. Did you ask a girl to marry you before you went out with her?
2007-03-16 09:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont get low cause u are fat i guess about half the people on this earth are obese at some point of thier life...n what does these kind of girls think that they would never get fat...duh!...well she rejected you that means she duznt know the real you...so first you can experiment with asking out other girls ..n if they turn u down then theres one solution...cut down yer fat consumption....but truly saying we girls are attracted more to a gud nature than a gud bod so act all sugary n honey-ey way and you'll get your lady
2007-03-16 09:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by ~~*NiTuM*~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women practice dismissal, fear, and preoccupation.
The number one dating advice for women is "play hard to get".
Also, no one has ever seen the start of a relationship, and obese blobs, (that are 50% of the population), have immature hysteria that causes delirium in good looking women.
2007-03-18 13:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, change your name from SHREYAS to FAT ***!!!!! Then get your fat a** into a gym! Then, if you can, stop eating all thise boxes of twinkies and you'll do just fine, If not you can always join the circus, JEEZ!!!!!
2007-03-16 10:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lose weight, and yeah if she isnt fat and hot u dont have a chance. so ur better off going for the fat girls
2007-03-16 09:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by pancho 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its her loss,so dont fret over it.
join a gym to get ur desired look
2007-03-16 11:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by mots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋