If my choices are phone, text message or IM how do i ask her out?

Question

This girl i like is a year older than me and i cant ask her out in person so my choices are on the phone, in a text message or throught IM so which do i do and how do i do it

Answer 1

I'd first mention it in IM and see what she thinks about it. If she seems like she wants to date you, then text her as it wouldn't be as unexpected for her as asking her on phone. On phone she wouldn't t have much time to think about it and may feel a bit uncomfortable. Good luck

Answer 2

The better choice out of the 3 is definitely by phone, as the other 2 are too impersonal. Good luck :)

Answer 3

It would be better in person but my next choice would be phone. Just be yourself and ask! What's the worst that could happen? She could say "no" and then you would know. The other choices are impersonal and kind of rude.

Answer 4

Texting and IM are too impersonable, Try the Phone man.

Answer 5

hi,my answer is going to be odd frrom the others because they all said the phone but i tryed it and it didnt really work all what happend was get amberesed because she wasnt expecting it ,and if u do it maybe a little easyer but maybe some one is listening so send her a text its safer and she can only read it ok .bye now

Answer 6

on phone that you be the 2nd way to ask her to the face but on a phone. Cuz if you send it on a IM it would kinda seem that your scared to talk to her you know

Answer 7

Phone is more personal.

Answer 8

talking is the best but if you cant then the next best option is the phone as she can hear you and know you are not bluffing.

Answer 9

Do it in person or don't do it at all. I don't buy the "I can't do it in person" nonsense. If you can't do it in person, how are you going to go out? Look her in the eye and ask her out.