I and my boyfriend, we are going to get married in this year but unfortunately I had found the man who really click my heart . I and that guy always go out and had intimate time together. Anyway he has his girlfriend, too. And it seems he is a playboy. What should I do? Should I break up with him or not?
2007-03-16 01:12:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In this case I think you go with your boyfriend and get married. If you go with the guy who clicked your heart your boyfriend would be dejected for sure even if he wouldn't show it. You urself think the other is a playboy. So go 4 the first one and have a great time!
2007-03-16 01:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by Chaste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man who you think is "clicking" your heart is really "clicking" with your head. Seriously, if that guy has a girlfriend, and it seems like he's a playboy, you should know the obvious answer to this one. It's lust and nothing more. The man who you are about to be married with should go & find a better woman because you are being nothing short of dishonest with him.
2007-03-16 08:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by Dusk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me u need to find yourself u r planning on getting married and have a lover 2 i dont think u know what u want if u have a lover the guy u r with must not be what u r looking for either and no he is not a playboy he is a player as for what u do that is up to u
2007-03-16 08:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by linda h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where I see it.. you're just being unfaithful. I be happy if you guys dont get married. Cheating on a bf just show that the probability of cheating on him again when you get married is there. I dont really know what you are thinking.... being intimate with the other guy when u are in a serious relationship. hell, break up and go hv fun with other guys. Be happy, be truly happy. Guys do have feelings. Not only girls get their heart broken. sheesh.... just go tell ur bf ab it... and let him make teh decision... why would you want to worry abt whether to break up with ur lover? let ur bf make teh decision ... knwing the gal he gonna marry is having an intimate rel with another guy.... well good luck!
2007-03-16 08:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by Dark Knight Diyar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this man click your your heart then you should be with him, but if u feel that he is a playboy then that is not somebody u would want to send your life with.So stat eith your current boyfriend his ot a playboy and he loves you and u most love him to, to say yes to him asking to married him.
2007-03-16 08:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by Cherelle M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have so many plans with your boyfriend ... .and you wanna break up with him for a PLAYBOY..!!!!!
Wake up!! Wake up!! Wake up!!
get real. .and just stick to that man who is really in love with you and working so hard to get married to you in this year ..
I am so sorry if i am saying all those hard words ..
But you really shoud Wake up!!
I agree 110% with Mixed lions that he is clicking your head .. !!
so Wake up girl and show your boyfriend how much you care for him ..
Believe me if you did break up with him.
you will be not only breaking his heart .. but you will teach him how to not trust any other girl ..
think about it .. and you will find out what is the best to do ..
Sorry again if I am saying those hard words ..
Trust your self and find the best to do.
I believe that you can find what is the best you should do.
Hope it help you.
I wish you all the best.
Good Luck.
2007-03-16 08:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by Ricardo V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are happy but you must realize that ultimately you cannot have a serious relationship with this guy who is already cheating on his girlfriend with you. You need to focus on the rest of your life and let yourself find someone else. IT won't be easy at first but there are plenty of other guys out there who understand and respect monogomous relationships. Besides, what if his girlfriend finds out and goes psycho!! ALso, what is to guarantee that there are not others like you besides you... he is a playboy and you need to find someone else. There are lots of single guys out there... like me. ; )
2007-03-16 08:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by Don Quesadia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is truly up to you...you have to think first..
if you leave your soon-to-be-husband..will he leave his girlfriend for you? or are you just going to be someone "fun" to be with for a little while for him.
In my opinion you should get this thing you have with this other guy out of your system...and be honest with you patner.
If you truly love him..you will tell him the truth and stay..if you dont..then you will dump him and stay with this "playboy" guy..who probably will just play you around like he is doing to his current girlfriend.
think about it.
and make sure you make the right decision.
2007-03-16 08:17:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out and see what happens with this other guy. You should be upfront with your current boyfriend though because if he finds out that you are cheating behind his back... you could end up losing both of them! Always be honest with your partners, but most importantly, be honest with yourself because in the end, that's who is going to matter.
Good luck!
2007-03-16 08:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by insanepotatochip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a playboy and he sure is playing you
he doesnt want you
he HAS a gf
stop messing around, you have a BF... you're going to REALLY mess up if you dont leave the other guy alone
2007-03-16 08:16:28 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋