him and my mom had a fight and he left and now she's cussing at us if we say the {and she's pregnant} how can i getmy daddy to come home
2007-03-16 01:11:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Oh my. You poor thing. It's awful when kids suffer because of fights between parent's.
Listen, adults are sometimes the biggest kids around. As a child, you cannot do much to get your parent's to talk to one another, because that would be interfering and wrong. And if you DO succeed, they'll just be together for your sake, and it will never work.
Let things settle down between them, but what you CAN do is this.
Call your dad if you have his number. Or if you don't, try some of his friend's houses, but only casually mention that you're wondering if your dad is there (don't make them panic- the less people involved, the better).
Once you get your dad, calmly tell him that you've been worried sick about him, and that things just aren't right at home without him. Let him know how affected you are, and say that you're not trying to be meddlesome, but you want your daddy back.
When he does come home, don't keep forcing your parent's into talking to each other if they're not doing it on their own. Just let your dad know how glad you are to have him back, and warn him never to do that again because you were very very very worried.
Now, if he doesn't come back home in a few more days, let your mother know that a 911 call is in order. If she refuses, LET HER KNOW (you must let her know because she might be super mad otherwise) that you'll call the police unless she does. Give her time to respond and if she still doesn't, then you get the help of another person-
An aunt or something. Ask them to help you call the police. Preferably someone very very close like your grandma or older sibling. If you're old enough (17) then just call yourself.
In the mean while, have a close friend by your side. You're going through a lot of emotional trauma. Talk to them and let them share your pain- I'm sure they'll want to.
Also, try talking to your mum by telling her how upset you are but don't yell!! Keep in mind that she's also going through a difficult period. Share your pain.
Good luck and I hope things get better.
2007-03-16 02:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by Chocolate Strawberries. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 23:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ivory, I know that it can be worrisome to wait for a family member that was supposed to have come home hours or days ago. Maybe it would be best if you relate your situation to your local police officers. They'll know what to do.
But before you do this, call your relatives and nearest friends first. Ask them if they know the whereabouts of your dad. If none of them knows, then call the police.
2007-03-16 01:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Dowland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know where he is or how to contact him? You are the child stuck in the middle, but the problem may be your mom? or your dad? The relationship is theirs. They need to work it out. You can contact him and voice your feelings, that may help. But if he returns, do he really love mom, or mom your dad? Where is dad and whom is dad with? Many questions can arise from these type of situations. Sit back, and honestly see whose at fault here,mom or dad, then let your honest unction be your guide.
2007-03-16 03:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by sekn4nsers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you are very young sounding. i am sorry that your daddy left. let him relax and take a big breath of fresh air. sometimes parents get mad at each other and when they calm down they can talk things over. in the mean time try to call your daddy and talk to him. OK? and you did nothing wrong so please don't blame yourself. hope it all works out for you and your family
2007-03-16 01:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by peanut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant do anything If there love is strong enough they'll come to some kind of working out thing but dot what ever you do don't interfer in the relationship it makes it worse for them so relax keep loving both of your parents they need you to be strong
2007-03-16 02:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't panic, maybe he's just staying with friend or some other family... do you know of anyone whose house he might be staying in? try to contact them and ask around... or call your dad up on the cell or at work... or try to go to places you think he might be in...
2007-03-16 01:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by get.real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call any of his sisters, or his mother, and say He needs to come home.
Good luck.
2007-03-16 01:16:39 · answer #8 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call 911
2007-03-16 01:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, he'll come home when he cools down... your mom has a lot of hormones running thru her... he'll come home and things will be fine.. be patient
2007-03-16 01:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋