I am 30 years of age virgin, i am not making sex b/c i belive in no sex before marriage. but upto now i am not married and there is no one going to marry me and at the same time i am in great need of making sex and now there is a man who is also in need of sex with me but he is married what do you advice?
2007-03-16 01:03:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO!!!
dont have sex with a married guy!
it makes you cheap, and he will not leave his wife for you
find a guy that you love
and get MARRIED
2007-03-16 01:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you this hard up that you have to pick a married man and may break up a marriage? If your that in need of sex can't you find another way?
Why is there "no one going to marry you" what's your problem? and what's your "great need to have sex" do you have a mission in life?
You'd better think about what your saying and going to do before you ruin someone Else's life and family and your own.
2007-03-16 08:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that there are many men who will have sex with you if that is all you are after. Just go to a bar alone, order a drink and wait. As for this guy, getting involved with a man who is married can be dangerous. She could go crazy and hunt you down like in so many movies. ALso, if there are children involved I do not think you want to be the one to destroy their family. Don't forget, sex complicates things and you might develop feelings for this guy who obviously is willing to cheat on his wife. You do not want a man like that. I think it is wonderful that you have been able to wait so long to have sex. I also think that you need to wait a little while longer for someone who is not married.. Sorry. You want your first time to be special and having an affair would ruin that. Anyway, there is always masterbation, on-line chat rooms and if you're anywhere close to me I'll help you out! ; )
2007-03-16 08:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by Don Quesadia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If he is in need of sex--he has a wife for that. I know I would not want to be the one to break up a marriage. You had better think hard on this--married men are not a good idea. Trouble.
2007-03-16 08:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!! How can you justify giving your virginity away to someone who is married? I don't agree that he is in need of
anything, other than being Faithful to his wife!! Ask yourself this: if you were married would you want another woman to
have an affair with Your Husband? Don't second guess
yourself, it seems pretty clear that you have a problem with
this issue, so follow your conscience and do what is right.
2007-03-16 08:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by jon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 30 ? thats still young and being a virgin at that age is amazin i dont regret loosin my viginity but im relly gutted that it cldnt of bin more special.what you gotta fink about is if you was married wuld u like it if ure husband had sex with anuva women.if uve kept to the promise of avin sex b4 marriage so far keep 2 it, one day you will find sum1 that you will want to marry and you will loose it.hes married dont loose it 2 sum1 that wil betray his wife do it to sum1 thats worth it.let it be destined. gd luck xx
2007-03-16 08:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by xxcharlenebbyxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno if you sound stupid because you can't speak English or generally are. This guy is MARRIED. Married means, he's with someone. If he's wanting to cheat on the woman he's married with, he's in the wrong. If you actually want to help him, cheat then you'll be just as bad. Do not, sleep with a married man. If you do, then you're just as stupid as you sound.
2007-03-16 08:27:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spread your legs, let him eat until he's full, then suck him dry. If he still wants more then have anal sex. That way your will still be a virgin for when you get married.
2007-03-16 08:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find an unmarried man. You risk a lot by being with someone who is married. Once people find out, and they will, bad things will befall you.
I'm not kidding.
2007-03-16 08:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of single men out in the world. Fine one that isn't already teken. Don't be a homewrecker and keep your legs closed.
2007-03-16 08:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋