what do you think is going to happen please help give e some advice?

Question

he dumped me after a two year relationship, he wanted cuddles and kising when we hung, but then he said he was my friend he just needed a break i didnt understand why so i was contacting him alot. Now ive decided that i'm going to wait for him to contact me i had no contact for two days then he contacted me and asked me if i had been ringing him i said no an he went ok cya and he went. Do you think he will get back in touch how long do you think he will take, does he still like me please help please

Answer 1

if he is your true love then he will definately come back to u. have faith in God, he will be always with u

Answer 2

There are several reasons for why someone wants "a break".
It sounds like a fairly decent length relationship, so if it's came out of the blue and you didn't see it coming he's either 1. cheated on you, 2. lost interest, 3. you have been smothering him.

The reason he called back was because you haven't smothered him lately, make him feel that you're the one in control. If you keep calling him or trying to contact him during the break it he's going to think you are pretty desperate and he'll end it completely.

The best thing to do now is not talk to him, he's already attempted to contact you once, if he tries again it means he's still interested. He might be playing a psychological game to see who caves in first, and since he likes making out with girls, chances are he will first.

Answer 3

First,

Stop sounding so desperate. And it's not the end of the world if he doesn't call back or come back to you. He most likely will get in contact with you because he's probably playing games. If he were serious he wouldn't get back into contact with you and continue on with his life.

Answer 4

I think that there is something else going on that he has not told you about. I also think that you should not worry about him any more and worry about yourself. He broke up with you and you need to realizue that. It sucks and its painful but, I'm sorry, you still need to get on with your life. Two things can happen. He can either pull his head out of his butt and come clean telling you what really is on his mind or you can get over him and find someone else. Whatever happens you need to focus on yourself now and get the rest of your life in order, make sure everything is going well with school and work, spend more time with your friends and hobbies, make more friends and start new hobbies, etc. Time heals all wounds, there are more fish in the sea, etc.

Answer 5

It takes guys about 2 to 3 years to realize if they want a girl in their life for the long haul. My advise to you is give him some space. 2 years is a long time, so just leave him alone, talk to other guys, go out with your girlfriends. If he really loves you, he will come back. He's just going through that 2 year itch that most men experience. VERY IMPORTANT: DO NOT CHASE HIM, make him come to you. That's the only way you'll know for sure...

Answer 6

I would say be there for him, but don't lead him on like you want him back, he has got to make the decision. My ex fiance just did this to me, i haven't seen her in two weeks. She has now got a ***** buddy but she say's there is no connection with this man because he is almost twice her age LOL. I'm honestly her friend right now, and anything she needs i will be there for her. but as for trying to get her back. she will come around when she realizes what she lost :) Im a nice guy, a very nice guy, i wouldn't do anything to harm a relationship. There aren't too many guy's out there like that, and definatly not where she is looking LOL.

Answer 7

Well if you like him that much you should go out wit another person until he calls you or something there is no point in waiting cuz there is a chance that he might be going out wit another girl. And you seem like the nice there no point of you getting hurt just because he left you for another girl that might be why he did it in the first place you know. But good luck wit you decision glad i could help

Answer 8

I think I need to rent a uhaul and make it my life's mission to fill it daily with copies of He's Just Not That Into You , then hand them out with ice cream to every beautiful, clueless, bewildered young woman who passes by. The message is clear; the writing is on the wall, and you know it, in your gut! Just forget this one, honey, and move on.He doesn't seem to know what he wants, and you shouldn't be giving another second's thought to someone who "dumped " you. Treat yourself better.

Answer 9

Don't rush him. He needs a 'spacer' to find out how he feels about you. I am sure he will call you back when he comes to his senses.

If he does NOT call you in 30 days, just say good bye. He just dumped you. Go and start a fresh life.

Answer 10

I hope he does not contact you. Girl! you deserve better, why would you want to be with someone that does not feel the same way about you as you feel about him. Go find someone who will appreciate you for who you are and not play games. Good Luck

Answer 11

Dear Emm, sweetheart... Please don't do this to yourself. Trust me... wouldn't you prefer a guy who adores you? Who can't live without you? Who doesn't dump you? Don't obsess over this one, dear... find a new hobby for yourself. I'm telling you from experience, things won't get better than this. You'll always be waiting and wondering and miserable, even if he wants to start "hanging" again. Cherish yourself. Find someone else who does, too. You deserve that.