I live with my bf actually we were roommates, but the thing is it feels like he is not noticing me any more. We would get home one of us would make dinner and then he would start to watch tv and fall asleep. If i dont go and sit next to him he wont if i dont touch him, he wont touch me
When he had fallen asleep i would go to bed and he will come to bed later during the night.
It is not that i want more time from him i just want him to sit next to me and hold my hand while he is watching tv how can i tell him this without him being angry at me?
He has a very bad temper, not that he would hurt me or anything he just gets angry very quickly.
2007-03-16 00:54:01 · 5 answers · asked by SAgirl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to work on your communication between you and your boyfriend..let him know how your feeling...tell him you dont want to make him angry..but you want him to know how your feeling.
hold his hand when watching tv..if he takes his hand away ask him why he did that..
when you are both either sleeping or falling asleep..wake him up and say" lets go to bed"
eventually he'll get used to it and do it by himself..or him his self will tell you to go to bed when his about to go to bed.
it takes communication for things to work.cause unfortunally..he wont be able to read your mind..and most the time..they dont get hints.
what i was telling you to do are not hints..but you will do it for a while..that he'll just get used to holding your hand while watching tv..going to bed at the same time..ect...
2007-03-16 01:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he is watching TV sit next to him. Hold his hand.
If he gets angry, don't cry. Just say, okay. Then start saving money over the next few months and move out, and find a new boyfriend. Write him a long letter, and leave it in the mailbox for him to find, along with your key.
Tell him, "I tried, you left me emotionally, I couldn't stand it, and your being angry at me for wanting affection."
GOOD luck.
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2007-03-16 08:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be impatient in this matter in relationships there will be good as well as there will be bad and if not, you would never have respect for the good because there would be an inability to compare.So my advice would be to keep somewhat of a distance and he will come around shortly.
Everybody needs love.....
p.s. make sure he isn't cheating.
paranoia
2007-03-16 08:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by kevin e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him eventually so tell him when he is in a good mood and explain to him what it is that you want from him. If he gets mad at you for telling him what you want.........either tell him to grow up or get lost. you have a right to express your feelings.
2007-03-16 08:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't he telling you "let's just remain good friends and roommates".......?
2007-03-16 08:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Nyaru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋