my boyfriend have a wife and her wife agreed that we are two in her husband life! her wife now is my closed friend and we accept our situation even its so complicated.. now our bf is in korea and were talking through chat our boyfriend bought a laptop for me and for her but he bought a laptop first for her wife and now he going to send it to her he said my laptop was not coming yet and i must wait. now its make me feel bad because i am jealous and its really make me cry evrytime he showing affection to her wife its really make me jealous and it feels like hell but i love him but being with him hurts me always i am young and pretty i can find other man easily but i love him more than my self i am afraid if i let him go i cant stand the pain. but i am always hurrt little by little being with him what should i do? our story are like a novel i thought i can only encountered such situation only on televission and a movie but now i am suffers these suck!
2007-03-16 00:44:21 · 9 answers · asked by goddess19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take the laptop and bang it on your head.
Ya the one who's accepting your situation now. You jolly well know there is no way to share a man with full peace and harmony. Gawd... hate to say this but gals like you are so dumb! Stop complaining! You asked for it!
2007-03-16 01:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Wish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can mean pain and suffering, it is not always flowers and chocolates. U should not be jealous, u knew before hand itself that u were the second women in his life, and u accepted this fact. The first wife is a jealous free woman to have accepted u, though she had full right to her husband, she accepted to share him with u. She appears a large hearted and kind woman. U must be happy that she gets these small gifts, she deserves it, u should not get hurt little by little. Try to be a bit large hearted and selfless.
2007-03-16 07:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hon, a man can not have two wives. He only has one heart.
You are too beautiful to spend your youth on such a one. You should not be living in a circus. You need to live a life. A life is a circle that is a gift. It is God who closes the circle around you. Go to Him in your heart. Ask for peace and the way to find His gifts. Read the Bible, see the link... Read about Ruth, Judith and Esther.
2007-03-16 07:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by QueryJ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hold up, so your both with one guy. Thats crazy, have you ever thought that maybe, he was playing you. If he's married why the hell did you get involved in the first place. And of course he's going to buy his wife the laptop first, its his wife you idiot. You will always come last in this relationship. Your homewrecker! You need to get out of this relationship and let them be.
2007-03-16 07:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by UnitedStatesofAlbania 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
from what i am gathering out of what ya wanna say, there is a threesome going on here and they NEVER turn into just a twosome so i would suggest keeping the laptop when it comes in, and i doubt it ever will, and tossing out the TRASH ! hes using both of you and its all :empty promise: . go on with yer life. good luck.
2007-03-16 07:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by privateone 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you need to be hurted by him a little bit more so you can stop loving him.
2007-03-19 16:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by pas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaaaaahhhaan :-d
u r definitely crazy and sick first go to doctor and leave him alone and dont distrap his life
2007-03-16 07:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by h82s00 . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
learn english
this is a mess of gibberish
noone can read or understand
if you are with a married man, STOP it... he's married
2007-03-16 07:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i think you are confused
2007-03-16 07:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by booge 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋