I have been in love with this boy like forever. Apparently, I blew my chance with by not picking up the signs that he was ready to settle down with me. I feel that if he really wanted to settle down with me he should have been straightforward with me instead of throwing me hints. When we were seeing each other I knew he was seeing other people to. How could I have possibly have taken him serious? He has moved on but I can't. What should I do especially whaen he still calls me for late night sessions?
2007-03-16 00:38:53 · 5 answers · asked by tetesims2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Babe it seems apparent to me that he s not for keeps. If he is really serious with you, he wldnt date other ppl and he wld have a good heart to heart talk with you about the future. I really know what Im talking about here, so I hope you know better than to cry sleepless nights over him! Dont entertain him anymore, you are not a spare tyre and ya not his shrink! If he has moved on, you shd too! Go spend time with ur gfs, indulge in new hobby, go running in the gym, have a new hairstyle etc... For me personally, to nurse a broken heart, I hit the gym or have a makeover... oh u know how women works, we wanna look good and rule the world again! hahah... Go spend time with the girls and have fun! BE STRONG AND DONT KEEP IN TOUCH WITH HIM ANYMORE.
2007-03-16 00:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by Wish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with ending the late night sessions. He is not ready to settle down. I was a relationship once with a guy under the same circumstances. I was sooo in love! I thought. I had to end the late night sessions. I had to cut him off permantly. Then you distance yourself from him. The first few weeks will be difficult. But, also go out with other people. Accept other date offers. That will help you see there are guys out there who actually think more of you than what they can get from a late night session. Before you know it you will wonder what you ever saw in the idiot. You didn't mess up. He did. He wants the illusion of a serious game but wants to play on the side. One day at a time.
2007-03-16 00:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one stop the late night sessions if he s getting sex for no committment why would he make the effort to settle with you> I know its hard to do but learn what dignity and self respect are and if he loves you he ll commit if he doesnt then ur better off wiothout him and u ll find some1 who does
2007-03-16 00:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by charlene M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Hes playing you . If he was ready to settle down then he would wait till you r ready . A man who really wants you stays with his commitment .,especially when its for life. If hes seeing others then throw him to the curb... Do you really want to wonder everytime he walks out that door who he is gonna try to capture today? Hes like a shark waiting for the injured fish ... LOSER... he is. { opps... Thats what he says... LOOSE HER}
2007-03-16 00:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time. I've been a widower for 9 years and sometimes you just don't get over it. You need to keep your eyes and heart open to new things and try to put this behind you asap.
2007-03-16 00:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋