i met this guy who is in the army...i really like him...he hates writing but writes long emails every time he gets a chance to email me. he said i was beautiful...how do you know if he means it? and what are the chances he likes me?
2007-03-16 00:27:47 · 11 answers · asked by amopsamster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not enough info at all
you didn't state where you met, when you met, how long ao you met, how long and deep you have been in the relationship or anything. (one could only assume it has not been a long relationship and you guys just recently met before he left)
however it appears you are being used and "kept waiting" and "in limbo" from long distance...whether you want believe it or not.
unfortunately nobody knows the answers to your questions.
It's just obvious that he is keeping you interested enough by writing to someone he told is "beautiful" (and you may be, thats not the point) to keep them interested and to stay interested in him until he gets back so he can have someting to "hit" when he gets back, mostly bc you are "beautiful" or good looking to him or whatever...guys will say anything just to get their "P" into your "P" and then go...
NEXT! ooorr to have you wait some more if he has to go away again..
it's your call...
I would do the same also if i didn't have a girl or gf before I left to go into the Army or one to come back to...I'd try to secure one before i left to have something to think about at the least and something to brag about to all "the guys" in the squad and something to "have a go at" lets say, till I decide if it's real or whatever...
again, not enough info to truely say....
just be aware of these things and be careful and in the meantime meet and talk to other people
2007-03-23 20:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, listen! Guys will always tell a girl what she wants to hear, i am not saying that you are not beautiful but that is the trick with them. I, myself am in the army and You say that you've met? Chances are he either has a girlfriend or a wife, and if he has neither, you are lucky. These guys play that game a lot, giving you all kind of compliments just to get into your pants. I am not saying your friend is like that but do not just jump into a relationship you are not sure about. Do some research, some"FBI BACKGROUND CHECK" i like to call it. As far as hating to write is already a lie if he can write long emails. Just be careful and preserve your heart for the best guy out there. Good luck!
2007-03-23 18:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by nounouce21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you. Wait until he gets back to get married. Write to him at least once or twice a week, his life is tough.
Don't promise you'll wait for him if you won't.
If you really want to be with this army guy, Don't see other guys to keep yourself occupied here, as before you know it, they will be with you, and he'll be out in the cold. And that blows to be so far away, and have someone drop you, just because you are far away, while probably under fire, or at least having a tough life.
I've been there. Dumped by the wife, who was in my house I had paid for with some other guy when I was in the Gulf.
We got divorced when I got back. I am sure she's flat broke, and still looking for a meal ticket.
2007-03-16 00:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the 2nd time you have asked the same question but with a different title.
You are not giving your question time for more varied answers to come in.
I notice you have added me to your contacts today.. yet have not answered any of my questions, and this is the 1st of your questions I have answered...
How many guys do you know LIKE writing? Think back to days in school and compare boys to girls?
The fact he has kept in contact with you should tell you something. Chill and don't pressure him. The Military have more than enough stress today.
What will be will be.
Be his Friend.
Try to be a GOOD listener.
Give to him your time so he knows he can rely on you.
Simple as.
2007-03-16 07:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by Hello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first of all i think it's pretty obvious. if he writes you long emails and he hates to write? come on. and i think that the only way to find out if he's telling the truth about whether he thinks you're beautiful or not is if he looks you in the eyes and tells it to you. so next time your man visits, talk to him, i know that eventually he'll say it again, and this time it will be to your face.
2007-03-16 00:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by da_fynest_boricua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances are very good that he likes you. But take it slow - he doesn't know you very well and most importantly, you don't know hiim very well. Just treasure his e-mails. It's wonderful to know that someone thinks you're beautiful.
2007-03-23 19:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hates to write but wrote you something long plain and simple your sepcial so he will take time to write to you...i think he likes you
2007-03-23 20:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by be55tlloka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are good he is in love with you right now. you might need to meet him and date for awhile to see if any thing changes
2007-03-23 21:21:37 · answer #8 · answered by jonniebahama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does like you...looking at you. You'll know the rest when he returns and gives you HEALTHY atention-over a lot of time.
2007-03-23 20:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by LELAND 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are yes he likes you ,
2007-03-23 19:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by beth b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋