if u and ya bloke had a argument and u havent txt eachother since monday, not bcos you dont want to butcos u want them too make the first move, but they still aint txt either, wot would u think and wot would you do? thnkx
2007-03-15 23:53:36 · 11 answers · asked by parent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
or he mite not give a f***
2007-03-15 23:58:18 · update #1
dont wana run 2 him, ill luk desperate, if a bloke wants u, h'll make the first move rite?
2007-03-16 00:00:59 · update #2
well usualy he stays over sun nites but last sun nite didnt hear frm him, then wen i woke up mon morning i had ten missed calls on my fone, frm him! so i txt him mon and rung no answer or reply all day or that nite so i txt him telling him he rings me n txts me wen it suits him and i cant b bothered wiv it, hes reply was ok, and we aint txt eachother since, i wana but dnt wana b the one to do it first again, i want to know if he cares
2007-03-16 00:05:44 · update #3
Depends on how much you care...
If you don't, then you shouldn't worry and sit back and waith for "ya bloke" to txt you. If you kind of care, you should send a general txt acting like you forgot all about it; and if you really care then there's nothing to wait for but a lot to loose, so in that case who care's who txt first? Just make sure that you are very honest, not half way...
2007-03-16 00:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by myliz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a very good question. I have sailed on this ship many times. Both of you want the other to make the first move. The problem is, you know that if you txt first, and yer bloke does not reply, then you're gonna be in a world of hurt. It is much better for your psyche to just wait for them to make the first move. Many times if you send out the first txt, you become a slave to your cell phone, watching, waiting for that stupid thing to beep back at you. Who wants that? My suggestion is, only send out that first txt if you are very confident that yer bloke will reply....
2007-03-16 07:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by FarOut 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if neither one of you don't make a move then it looks like it's over ,,,, If you no longer want this person then remain silent ,,,, Your relationship isn't going to warm up at all until one of you breaks the ice so to speak ,,,, If you don't like or want him bad enough to make the first move then there are always other fish in the pond so to speak ,,,, If he's being stubborn then let him ,,,, I wouldn't put my life on hold for anyone were I you ,,,, Life's too short to be embroiled in some kind of a petty argument or disagreement ,,,, It's probably time for you to go fishing ,,,, Find some one that's fun and exciting to be with and treats you the way they should ,,,, They are out there all you have to do is find one and they usually come trouble and problem free ,,,, If this guy that you are with now really loved you then he'd be bending over backwards trying to prove it to you instead of playing head games ,,,, His giving you the silent treatment is a good indication that he wants it to be over anyway ,,,, Time to move on and forget this jerk ,,,, You don't need this childish crap and you deserve better ,,,, If he's waiting for you then he's out of line because it's just not proper form for the girl to make the first move regardless of who started the argument or who's responsible ,,,, So the ball is in his court so to speak and it's up to him to make a decision ,,,, If you should decide to contact him then tell him he can go find some one else to play games with ,,,, That you have better things to do with your life than to put your life on hold for some one like him ,,,, Bottom line and end of story ,,,, Good post ,,,, You got a star from me for it ,,,,, Yoda said this ,,,,,
2007-03-16 07:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably playing the same game you're playing hun an you r both too proud to b the first. Communication is the key to any relationship, romantic or not. Talk to him and try n sort it out maturely. You'll then both know where you stand. Good luck babes x x x
2007-03-16 12:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe both of you are waiting for each other for the first move. Just a simple text saying that you don't want to argue anymore will be enough. You do not need to say sorry,just initiate the first move. No point waiting...
2007-03-16 07:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by lemonade 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it a week. If he hasn't responded, move on.
I'm wondering what the argument was about, that would seem to be a big indicator as to his next move.
2007-03-16 07:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ya just be sexy look desperate and he will surely make a move.
2007-03-16 07:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
need to earn points
2007-03-16 07:16:01 · answer #8 · answered by GonE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just txt them, hu noes they could die any moment, u neva no wat'll happen so just do it.
2007-03-16 06:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he might be playin the same game as you
2007-03-16 06:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋