i know this guy for about a year now..hes my best frnd now....n i really love him..even though he has a gf he always keeps flirting with me...he tells me everything...he cares for me a lot and he told me once that im one of the most important people in his life..what does this mean???????does he love me????how do i find out whether he loves me or no without causing any harm to our frndship???
2007-03-15 23:51:09 · 12 answers · asked by cool girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Playa! You deserve better. Wait until you're an Adult. You'll be better able to judge things like that. Until then? Be the Untouchable Diva! You'll be much happier, that way.
2007-03-15 23:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will always talk more freely to a woman friend. There is no fear of competition then, and he can and will say much more than he would to a male friend. I have had many female friends in my time, and I treasure each one of them, because there was no sexual temptation (except . . .but that's another story). I think your friend is a friend only at the moment, but if you are both young and unattached, something may occur to him one day. It's up to you to gently persuade him that getting serious was his idea!
2007-03-16 06:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just a friend. Find someone who is truly available, and stop obsessing over him.
If you want a relationship with him, ask for one, but like you said, he's already got a girlfriend, and has had a chance to date you for a year. Do the math. He's your friend.
2007-03-16 06:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, confused, no doubt. He's in the friend zone but you still want him even with a girlfriend.
Be patient and let things play out, maybe if he and his gf break up.
2007-03-16 06:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by guy o 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him your best friend even if your not his gf. GF/BF are a dime a dozen, having a friend is worth alot more. Don't mess it up and you'll never know what might happen.
2007-03-16 08:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Confused, I'm Da Boss.
2007-03-16 06:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by daboss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i know how you feel exect the guy i like doesnt have a gf, you just have to ride it out
2007-03-16 06:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you as a best friend...someone he can share his troubles with...he's got a girl friend...so let him be...if he loves you he would have left her for you...
if he loves you and doesnt leave her...well he wants both...then he's not the man for you..only a heart breaker..
2007-03-16 06:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by dewdrops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does love you in a friendly sort of way.
2007-03-16 06:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he puts great value in your friendship; I wouldn't ruin it if I were you!
2007-03-16 06:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋