okay my friend is 14 and she is going out with tis guy who is 17 but he will be 18 on the 20th of this month and she will not be 15 tell july and alot of people keep telling her to bracke it off with him b/c of how old he is but she thinks its cool and that with good friends like them age ttly does not matter i think she is rite but what do yall think
2007-03-15 23:06:08 · 15 answers · asked by t~kat_6_6_6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why not? that's no problem
2007-03-15 23:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by veii 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
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2016-11-25 23:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by ecker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your spelling and grammar makes it almost impossible to understand what you are trying to ask, but I don't think she should be dating anyone period. There are more important things to worry about, like school. She is probably sleeping with him, or will soon, which is just an unnecessary complication in a teenagers life. I would break it off, she doesn't need that headache and responsibility right now.
2007-03-15 23:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really comes down to how wise your friend is and how sensible the guy is. I see no harm in that, it is only a three year age gap after all. Most couples I know are further apart from that. A good friend of mine at work is 21, her boyfriend is 28, my parents are about 3 years apart, my grandparents are 8 years apart, my best friend is about 4 years younger than his girlfriend.
As long as this guy isn't going to take advantage of your friend and as long as they are both sensible and grown up in what they do (i.e. safe sex etc) then I think everyone else should leave them to it.
Your friend just needs to be careful and sensible. Beyond that, she should stick with him and enjoy going out with him!
2007-03-15 23:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
She's wrong, and needs to break up with him. First of all, she's "jail bait" and could get him into a great deal of legal trouble, and he'll wind up in prison! Next, there's a huge gap in maturity level between them, and that's a bad thing. Your friend needs to date boys her own age, not men!
2007-03-15 23:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think maybe it's way past time mom and dad get in on this. Why is she even alowed to be dating? I have a son who is 16 and two daughters one 13 and one 15 and this sh#$% doesn't happen in my house. 100% sure.
2007-03-15 23:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, after the 20th of this month, he'll be eligible for a long prison term! That's so cool!
*sarcasm off*
2007-03-15 23:09:35 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
three or four years age difference would be perfectly normal for a couple.
as long as there's no pressure to engage in sex.
2007-03-15 23:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she shouldnt be dating at all expecially some who is almost 18....Your right age doesnt matter but it does when your under 18...
2007-03-15 23:10:15 · answer #9 · answered by anthonymperkins05 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
as long as they are just good friends. no hanky-panky until she is 18, otherwise he could go to prison.
2007-03-15 23:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she were my daughter, I'd make him disappear.
2007-03-15 23:09:33 · answer #11 · answered by irmaynerds 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋