she just got out of a relationship (she's never lived alone in her entire life) and she's 33.
Why do guys go for her if she's such a loser?
2007-03-15 22:47:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Eliana, that is very harsh of you to judge another person as a loser. What is making you say such remarks about her? Do you even know the real reason why she is staying with her parents? Maybe her parents are old and she wants to take care of them. My advice is go to her and make friends, you may find out that she's not a "loser" after all.
2007-03-15 22:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by Dowland 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Apparently she has something going for her if she has the attention of other guys. Maybe the arrangement she has with her parents is fine by everyone concerned. Except for you maybe. Until you know for sure what her circumstance is don't be so quick to label her as a "loser". Even if you think that you do know her situation (or are you just guessing?) don't be so judgmental or even suppose to impose your viewpoint on how someone else has chosen to live their life. It's no ones business except hers so leave her alone.
2007-03-15 23:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a little odd but I wouldnt say she's a loser, she's just not independent. It's unusual that her parents haven't suggested her leaving to get some life experience on her on. if you don't know her well, she might have a condition that makes it safer to just stay at home with someone.
I wouldn't jump to conclusions. It's odd, but if her parents don't mind and she doesn't mind then let her be. I wouldnt say that she's a loser. Maybe she's been saving a lot of money or donating to charity or something, who knows.
2007-03-15 22:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not? She doesnt have to pay bills, wash her clothes, cook her parents do that. Who knows, maybe she is saving for a good house instead of dishing out money on renting a small flat or house. She either sounds smart or very happy to be with her mother and father.
2007-03-15 23:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is a loser. maybe if she had never moved out of her parents house her whole life and never paid rent or tried to help then I'd call her a loser. alot of men go for her cuz they know she has extra money from livin at home. maybe she is hot also. she is probably looking for a guy to come along and get her out of her house and into a home for her and him
2007-03-15 22:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by princess1226 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know many people in their 20s and 30s that live with their parents while going to school. They're not losers. If she's not TRYING to get on her own for any reason, I wouldn't call her a loser until I knew more about her, like her reasons for doing it.
Why do guys go for her? Same reason guys go for sluts, or good responsible women go for guys who are going to beat them or cheat on them or ultimately cheat them like ****. It's a subconscious thing that makes you attracted to the person you're attracted to regardless of their personality or social position.
2007-03-15 22:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by Siren 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
she is a loser b/c she lives with her parents after a failed relationship?
since when does that make u a loser?
you sound like the loser.
2007-03-15 22:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by Not here 2 make friends 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you surprised that guys go for such girl? They know that she is cheap and an easy lay and as such, men will flock around her just for the fling.
2007-03-15 22:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by comradechris 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why is she a loser just because she lives with her parents? Maybe she can't afford her own place
2007-03-15 22:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by ChocLover 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
LOL You have been kinda impolite, yet he would pick a wakeup call. No activity, lives with mom, on no account had a activity, and runs crying to mommy whilst plenty-youthful woman disses him. That spells extreme loser to me. (i'm assuming that his mommy isn't desperately sick and scarcity of life and desires him to preserve her. He could get factors for that.) a guy could comprehend he could choose to coach himself worth of you. Your disdain could be motivating to a grown up guy or woman who cherished you. stable for you for being choosy sufficient to no longer pass out with him. (i wish you're being so plenty extra choosy than that. I recommend, that one is backside of the barrell, only somewhat above convicts -- who do paintings in penal complex.) AND he's only too old for you, on suitable of each and every thing -- yet you're extra mature than he's and are doing a ton extra appropriate in life. Ask your mom in case you actual need to pass out with completely unemployed losers? Is that what she needs for you? recommend to her that a guy who would not opt to paintings is off any checklist you have. you do no longer opt to even draw close out with somebody like that. no count number how super his mommy could be.
2016-10-01 00:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by intriago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋