There this boy i like and he so great to me but lately he has been doing dirty flirting with me by text messaging me saying he wants to do fings with me and what I have do to him. I got scared but played along and then he replied again worse than the text before because I didnt reply he texted back saying don't take me seriously. So shall i just play along or back off but his texts sounds so serious that he sounds like that he actually does want to do it!
2007-03-15 22:43:21 · 22 answers · asked by Miss_Party_Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I'm leading him on to
2007-03-15 22:46:42 · update #1
like christina said ..Diiirtttyyy, just play along unless it gets too nasty, sounds like a good opportunity !
2007-03-15 22:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when he got too dirty you didn't reply and he backed off saying he was kidding so what 's the matter?There's nothing wrong with exchanging flirty saucy texts if you fancy him but don't go on with the teasing game if you don't want anything but friendship.As for what he said he wanted to do you ,I'd say it's easy to get randy on texts it doesn't mean he'd be able or willing to do it in real,he might as well be shy in the bedroom...
2007-03-16 05:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by valerie_adele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a personal feeling what is considered dirty or clean in to sexual interaction. Maybe, this is something that can be played around with his girl for fun even though he think it is not clean. But it is only up to your true feeling that what kind of relationship you are. Do you feel that you guys are serious enough to share more more private things in more transparent way? Even though you think you are and you do not feel comfortable with it, you should have very honest but comfortable talk. Even though it might embarrass him, he can handle it well if he thinks your relationship is serious enough.
2007-03-16 05:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by Yogurt and Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get too serious about all this stuff now..have fun and dont do anything you would NOT want your little sister to do with a BOY
This means NO! He only wants your "P"ower and once you give it to this boy or the next or any of them, they will have gotten what they want and the next thing you know you will have a broken heart and be wondering why he/they wont talk to you anymore and want to go get some other girl and all that like you see in the movies and on TV and in real life with your gf's..
Just be friends , flirt, and have fun and get to know them and date if you want and never get too serious with a "boy" till he becomes a man and you know him and his family very well for a year or more and he asks to marry you maybe...
good luck
G
2007-03-16 05:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes he could take this as foreplay and assume that you are up for something your not based on your text sex messages. Best you back of completely and let him know that you are not interested in that sort of chit chat. It is a bit much really! You now know how his mind works so decide is this really the nice guy you thought??? Think not!!
2007-03-16 05:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is testing the waters so too speak, how you react, sounds like he is a bit randy and letting his hormones (other brain) think for him..
so is here serious, part of the hormone things... are you leading him on, yea... part of the teasing thing.. but probably need to back off, sounds like too big of a leap for you right now to be texting and hard core teasing... just send a text that he needs to jump in a shower!
oh... that feeling your having is kind of a control thing going on in your head.. yea, you can lead him on and bring him back down too... so cool that Romeo off a bit and enjoy those short flirtations but keep them in bounds too.. as it just drives the boys crazy and keeps you in control... enjoy..
2007-03-16 05:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think about what you want, if you are preparred to start something with him and wouldnt mind doing to him the things that you say the of course play along. but if you dont like him and dont want to be in a sexual relationship with him shut it down. the ball is in your court listen to your instincts, dont wait for him to decide. it is a black and white situation if you do then keep going if you dont then let him know
2007-03-16 05:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet_Miss_Toni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to carry out the things he says. I would avoid him if I were you. Don't be taken in by his apologies as he has already shown what he wants. He has shown his true colours which aren't nice. Sex should come within a marriage blessed by God. It is a great virtue to stay a virgin until married and please don't feel pressured at any time to have sex. May God protect and care for you. x
2007-03-16 05:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by Birdman 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it could just be a game he's playing to get your reaction, first thing, if you're leading him on thats a dangerous game to play, you could get hurt if he tried to take you up on it. stop playing games, and be care ful in future as some things can get out of hand, secondly, always listen to your instincts, they're rarely wrong, if you feel scared, its for a reason.
2007-03-16 06:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to do those things to you and is testing the water, judging by your lack of response if he has a brain he wont try it again, too soon anyway,
2007-03-16 06:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love it. You want it. You want it bad. You're a dirty, dirty girl who needs it hard and fast like a freight train.
P.s. Don't take me seriously.
2007-03-16 06:07:16 · answer #11 · answered by lloydwaycott 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋