ive been seeing this guy for 1 year now, he had not long come out of a 2yr relationship and dont have children he is 24, and i have a 4yr old boy frm my previous relationship. im 23 and wen i first met this guy he said he didnt wana rush and that he wanted to b sure, which was sorta ok wiv me, although i wanted to be his girlfriend, then he told me he mite b moving far away so he didnt want me to get too attatched cos he didnt wana hurt me, i told him i love him, about 5 months ago, he didnt say it bk, which is cool cos i know that to him he would only say if the times right. im really worried that im never gona be his girlfriend, i still havent met his parents, id like too! at the min we aint talking cos we had a bit of a argument, i told him i cant be botherd wiv him and so on, his reply was ok, i aint txt him and he aint txt me since monday, and i cant go round his house cos i dont know his mum n dad, i think if he had any feelings towards me he would at least txt me.
2007-03-15 22:43:06 · 4 answers · asked by parent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know it dont luk good does it, perhaps i should just give up, i cant force him to love me.
2007-03-15 22:53:47 · update #1
yeah but i wouldnt expect him too be a big part in my bys life, just wana b his gf, wot really makes me angry is that he was engaged to his ex living wiv her at her parents, commitment and she chucked it all away, id never do anything too hurt him yet he aint made any commitment to me, it seems soooo unfair
2007-03-15 22:59:42 · update #2
He's not worth it. I know right now you think he is, but he is not. There are so many fish out in the sea, yet we get attached so quickly to one person and are afraid to leave them. Dont make a fool of yourself and beg for him and so on. Let him come around
2007-03-15 22:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he doesn't want to get any attached feelings for you. Possibly because you have a child already. Most guys don't want responsibility for another mans child.
2007-03-16 05:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mista R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe that's pride that's telling him not to contact you!.. at least call him, if he doesn't take your call then maybe he's not ready to talk to you or he'd move on...
maybe he's been hurt in the previous relationship then you have to be strong for both as he may need more time to heal... heart can be mended not only with time but also with willingness! if he doesn't want to be healed, he won't!
good luck, i know how hard that can be! but hold on
2007-03-16 05:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
twelve months and you havent met his parents and he hasnt said i love you? sorry babe this guy just aint into you! cut your losses and find a man that will show you off to all his family and friends and is proud to have you in his life!!
2007-03-16 05:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet_Miss_Toni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋