How can I get my boyfriend of nearly three years to take me seriously? Im going out tonight and I feel guilty because he is staying at home, this is my second week out in a row! But the more i thought about it, He's going to ibiza in June, and I know for sure he's not going to feel guilty about leaving me in sunny scotland. How do I go about acting tough again. I used to be before I met him, not letting anything bother me and now I let everything bother me! lol I think i've lost my confidence and I dont know how to get it back! thanks for your help
2007-03-15 22:35:09 · 7 answers · asked by nc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to start doing for you again! And this will sound harsh, but stop thinking of him when you make decisions-think only about you and what you want to do! Try doing things that would boost your confidence level-things that make you feel good about yourself! Do things on your own! It's amazigng the confidence you can gain by learning to be alone-and not necessarilya t everything, but some things!
Slowly but surely, you should regain who you used to be!
2007-03-15 22:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaaah, welcome to the joys of being in a proper relationship, there is nothing wrong in what you feel, you are going out but are torn because you want to be with him too, he is going away and you will miss him, why do you feel the need to act tough, as you put it? why not just be honest about how you feel instead of pretending? perhaps if you were honest it would be the two of you going to Ibiza instead of him going off on his own and leaving you, you are putting on an act, ever stop and wonder if he is too? be honest, be happy, good luck to you both
2007-03-16 05:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are sure he won't feel guilty what so ever....then,why put yourself on a guilty state of mind..enjoy your life being happy.. but,try not to put yourself in a relationship again..until you have done all in life being happily single...i am sure you will forget about him..it just takes time to forget..don't watch romantic shows cause you will put your mind unto him again..funny shows are the best medicine to cure>>>lovestruck sickness........ STAY HAPPY>>>SMILE :-)
2007-03-16 06:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by virgo7134 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a smart and confident young lady, and no typo's too... not sure what you should do but just have fun and enjoy life at this time of your life... not too serious, not too cavalier.... enjoy.
2007-03-16 05:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow, sounds good
do anything you can if girl is your best friend, then do same for your boyfriend.
2007-03-16 05:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by gadgetki 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be firm with him and talk face to face
2007-03-16 06:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by Harkirath Singh 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him... then everything will be back as it was... :D
2007-03-16 05:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋