ok my question is my boyfriend tells me all the time he doesnt feel good enough for me. but i tell him i think he is great. he says he doesnt deserve someone like me and that he hopes he doesnt disappoints me any suggestions on what this is all about? does he want me to just give up and move onto someone else? am i good enough for him? i dunno need some advice on this one.
2007-03-15 22:03:55 · 11 answers · asked by poohbear27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he has low self esteem...i speak from experciance. ...he must deserve someone like you if he has you as a girlfriend right? ITs just his way of telling you you are wonderful!!!
2007-03-15 22:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by anthonymperkins05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a polite way of saying that he does'nt deserve u, he is not good enough for u. What he means is that u are not made for each other. In love, real love, the differences vanish. In this case he is exaggerating the difference, as there is no love.
2007-03-16 05:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him about it.
see what he thinks.
ask him those question's
he might just be pulling a guilt trip for some reason.
if he still doesn't think he is good enough for you prove that you DON'T wanna be with any other guy and that no other guy BUT him deserves you.
take him out some where around a lot of guy's and dont take your eye's off him and always be chatting with him and showing affection prove your love for him and that he in fact IS good enough for you.
I hope it all work's out good for you :)
peace
2007-03-16 05:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by *B.S.S.F.P* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is being painfully honest about his emotions.
it is undoubtedly caused by a lack of experience with the opposite sex.
I suggest you devise a simple punishment, to be administered every time he starts spouting that crap.
20 push ups, or send him out to run around the block.
hopefully the exercise will get some blood into his brain and wake up his ideas.
2007-03-16 05:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be that he committed something wrong and feels guilty towards you in his deep feeling , try to test that , if you discover that he has an honest feeling , give him some self confidence and tell him that everyone makes mistakes and it isn't the end of the world .
2007-03-16 05:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could he be using this as an excuse to dump you? You need to observe his actions from now onward and decide for yourself if he's really good or bad for you.
2007-03-16 05:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by SGElite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is giving himself an exit strategy.
2007-03-16 05:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are not responsible for his depression. Read a book called "Women who love too much" and then take a call.
Personally, i would have told him to get rid of his complex or to get rid of me.
2007-03-16 05:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by Yahoo! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just want your attention, meantime just ignore him and see what's he is going to do.
2007-03-16 05:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, he likes u really really bad. dont give up ull never find anyone like him.
2007-03-16 05:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by sadighe f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋