Ok so about 3 weeks ago a girl from church stopped talking to me.... we were starting to become good friends but like i said things got cold turkey real quick. i asked her why we stopped talking and she never answered until just a couple of days ago, she told me she just had been busy with college and work and all that , she told me that she didnt forget about me and that she missed talking to me , she has a bf but they dont see each other much , umm do you think she might have something for me or no chance she just wanted to get back in touch with me and has been just busy? i know this is a stupid question but its a question none the less, and maybe some of you girls know about this or have done this before and its because you have missed that one other guy besides your bf that you possibly could see yourself with...... what i didnt add before is that her bf and her had broken up before because he cheated on her , she took him back ummm its all i wanted to add....
2007-03-15 21:53:23 · 8 answers · asked by Cj 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't give up. Be there for her.
There was once this girl that I was attracted to. We got along great, and she just wanted to be friends. I wanted to go out with her a lot more than she wanted to go out with me.
We were friends for YEARS before we dated more than once. Been married for well over 20 years, and we're still best friends. In a relationship like this, you NEED to be.
2007-03-15 22:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by nwclark78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I ll say the girl is juggling her time with you and her bf. When her bf is there for her, she wld forget you but then he s not, she gets lonely and contact you and thus told you blah blah blah reasons. If I choose to be honest, I ll say she doesnt even treat you as a good friend, merely a spare tyre to fill in her once in a while loneliness and depression. See girls can be pretty mean and smart. They sometimes reserve some guy friends to be there for them in times of need to make them feel good again. :)
2007-03-15 22:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by Wish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes ( I know this may sound selfish), girls like to have other guys around; maybe for advice or just someone to talk to other than a gal friend {and sometimes hugs from guys tend to be more comforting- don't know why}. It is possible that eventually, maybe she'll feel that she can fall back on you. But don't get your hopes up(sorry), it's just sometimes people don't see the other people around them who may be even more compatible than the person they are seeing.
2007-03-15 22:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by KayTy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met a girl that used the same excuses. She was a player and even cheated on her boyfriend. Spent more time with me than him for weeks at a time. It might be best to stay away and find someone else or stay friends.
2007-03-15 22:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by Mista R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude go for someone else, shes got a bf and she took her bf back after he cheated on her. i bet she was 'busy' with her bf. sorry about that, but yer dont get ur hopes up too high.
2007-03-15 22:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you are in the "friend zone". from what you are saying,she needed someone to talk to because of her recent brake up with her boyfriend and you happened to be there! try not to get your hopes up,you will only end up disappointed over nothing,she is still involved with the guy after all,sorry dude!
2007-03-15 22:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by CHARLIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, as girl also.... i think that she only thinks of you as her good friend... yeah we know that most of the times girls tell lie but in many ways girls tell the truth... if she says that she's busy or what so ever.... but it's up to you.... what do you think is the truth then stick to it... or why don't you just asked her again if you really want the truth....
2007-03-15 22:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she sees you as a good friend only, but there's always a possibility she has something for you, but don't get your hope too high for now..
2007-03-15 22:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by justanickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋