Ok so about 3 weeks ago a girl from church stopped talking to me.... we were starting to become good friends but like i said things got cold turkey real quick. i asked her why we stopped talking and she never answered until just a couple of days ago, she told me she just had been busy with college and work and all that , she told me that she didnt forget about me and that she missed talking to me , she has a bf but they dont see each other much , umm do you think she might have something for me or no chance she just wanted to get back in touch with me and has been just busy? i know this is a stupid question but its a question none the less, and maybe some of you girls know about this or have done this before and its because you have missed that one other guy besides your bf that you possibly could see yourself with......
2007-03-15 20:57:07 · 6 answers · asked by Cj 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it's probably as true for women as for men- if she were really into you, she probably wouldn't have let the relationship/friendship drop off like that. Based only on the information presented, my guess is that she just likes/needs the male attention. Just because she has a boyfriend doesn't mean it doesn't feel good that you like her, and maybe she is using you to stroke her ego. i'm not trying to say anything bad about her- we all want to feel wanted and attractive, so it's really normal.
i think if she were truly interested in you, she wouldn't have disconnected from you. Then again, there may be a renewed interest in you because the two of you have been interacting more lately. If she doesn't see her boyfriend very often, it's possible that she has emotional needs that aren't being met that she sees may be possible to be met by you and she's feeling it out.
It's hard to tell, based on what info you've provided, but my first guess is she just likes that you like her.
2007-03-15 21:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by neamhni 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey maybe she was busy. If she is truly a friend of yours, don't stop talking to her and don't question her answer. You can only believe what people tell you. Do this...... If you have her phone number call her just to say hi, when you see her at church, sit next to her during the service. If you get or she gives off a funky vibe then call her on it and question her. good luck
2007-03-16 04:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by sayj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She either doesn't want you, or (as she said) is so busy she isn't trying to hook up with anybody.
Play loose, no pressure. See somebody else you like to see if she steps up and breaks the silence. That way either way, you get her or you get a new flame.
2007-03-16 04:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're busy, you don't just STOP talking to someone... You usually have the decency to explain that you don't have time to talk... More likely her bf found out you were talking to her and laid the law down.. :D
2007-03-16 04:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that she want a friend that know a lot about her and care about her. you got to take care of her because she just got a trouble with her boyfriend. or you might just have a chance to be her new boyfriend.
2007-03-16 04:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by tetsuo921228 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she was starting to like you but then realize it would be wrong to hook up with you so she started to try and ignore you if i was you i wouldnt pressure her let her get sum space and let her figure out whats she wants and if it was meant to be she'll *** 2 u but be patient
2007-03-16 04:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋