I don't know what to do?? >>?

Question

Ok I met him online, we used to go to the same elementary school. First he wanted me to accept his friend request, then he gives me his phone number, After like 6 months of talking I really wanna go out wit him. He's an awesome guy, I don't wanna say anything to ruin this friendship. But i wanna go the next level and I don't know about him. We were on the phone for like two hours last night. UUGG>> what do I do??

Answer 1

Okay...although you two met online I'm assuming you are fairly close (geographically) to one another.

Obviously you two have a mutual liking of each other, or you wouldn't be spending the time talking together.

Since you know what you'd like to see happen, but are unsure of what he might want...

My suggestion, ask him if he'd like to get together and do something...be it a movie, or just hang out somewhere.

Just don't call it a "date" and leave it as a general/vague question and let him take it from there. That way it could still be a "friends getting together" kind of thing...no pressure.

See how it goes...you'll probably be able to tell if he's thinking of seeing things "go to the next level" or not.

Honestly; although I could be wrong, I think he might be trying to figure out if you're interested in him.

Answer 2

I think he really likes you too.Ask him if he would like to hang out sometime(something really casual,that you would do with a friend)act as if that's your intention,because truly it is right?A little get together to see how it goes,no pressure,no big deal,then if it doesn't work out or go in that direction then its too soon or not right,however I think in taking this approach you will both be more comfortable and no one gets put on the spot like its a date,and then hopefully it will take off from there.

Answer 3

If you were on the phone for two hours he is just as interested in you as you are in him!

Answer 4

talk to him about it. maybe he feels the same way.