Okay well there is this guy i really like and i am supposed to hang out with him this weekend but my friend who also likes him is going too and she doesn't know i like him.
My question is how do i get the attention off of her so he just notices me, and also what are some things guys find really attractive?
thanks
2007-03-15 20:42:20 · 8 answers · asked by lalala 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should talk with your friend about making a move on this guy before the day comes. Be honest. Don't "boobyblock" her or you might lose both.
2007-03-15 20:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not think in the manner of, how do I get the attention off of her," instead just be yourself. When it comes to relationships, it does not matter how far in the dark a person is pushed, if the light is meant to shine it will. It also comes down to the spark that ignites between two who are meant to be! Even if you make her look terrible, it does not mean you are going to be more attractive to him. It is also all a preference of individual taste. Two different people can taste the same ice cream and have two different opinions. The same goes with people, and do you really want to be chosen by default; your flavor is the one with out the salt poured all over it. Always have faith in yourself, and know that you are the best flavor, regardless of what else is offered, and the rest will follow. If you do not love yourself, how do you expect some else to? It is kinda like the saying, "If the shoe fits.." there is some things that can not be forced, love is one of those things. If it is meant to be, it will be! PS don't lose a friend over this, talk to her about it!!!
2007-03-16 04:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just be yourself. You want a guy to like you for who you really are.
2007-03-16 04:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
generally, guys like girls who can carry themselves. those who don't try so hard to be noticed and just act naturally. girls trying to hard to please a guy or get his attention is always a turn-off. just be yourself
2007-03-16 03:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by det 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do that....remember to always be yourself...he'll decide who he likes best and live with it....if he doesnt want you who cares...love yourself first...try not to pver po will ee thorwer your friend ..he'll see through thaat and then you will look like a loser and have no chance for sure
2007-03-16 03:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by amor_dove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say you back off and give him to the friend OR i say you spread rumors about your friend and wear a short skirt and pumps
2007-03-16 03:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by amanda luu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take her along, or hope another guy comes along to keep her distracted.
2007-03-16 03:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by Mista R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is that u get more closer to him than she is, like if u've got his number call him specially on nites during his bed time and let him msg to call the next nite and talk sexy things thats wat guys like, i do like when gals talk sexy things on their beds i just wana do em
2007-03-16 06:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋