I'm having this boy frnd and we're in this relationship since 3 months. Both of us were happy until my parents came to know about this. They have told me not to meet this guy and even not to talk to him. they said that he is not a good guy! But i Love him a lot and i cant even go against my parents. What should i do? Please help me out!
2007-03-15 19:40:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It all depends on how old are you guys??
If you are adults like 23 -24 or older... and he is indeed good, u feel! Then donot show extreme conduct to either side! Neither turn him off nor u shld go too far with him, considering the point that someone has something against him. which should be enough to make u think!
3 months is not enough to know inside out of a person. ..especially men, as they have a tendency of having frequent shifts in their relations! Give your relation some time, but with care. Dont jump into that with whole of yourself! Expore it , test it and try it from different angles! Ses if he's honest and true in love with u. and can go any far for you!
But pleeeease DONOT hurt your parents by saying anything like- "You donot have anything to do with it".. coz they are your parents, they care foryou, they are far more experienced than you and they must have some reason to stop you from meeting him. Explore both sides - i,e, why your parents donot like him? and How much serious and honest and trustworthy that guy his... Does he really deserve you? will you be happy together in adverse situations as well? or your parents are right!??
And If you guys r teenagers, just donot take it too seriously.. Many like him will come and go in ur life.. you have a long way to go! May be you donot want to cut off from him completely! but do Listen to ur parents and just dont indulge too much in him! At this age you should FOCUS on ur studies! Aim to achieve something in life before love happens in its true sense. And that will happen on its own.. and if he's meant to be yours he'll stay !
Wish you all the very best!
2007-03-15 20:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by kirti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My frnd love needs no look, no wealth,and no money .It only needs a heart which is good to u .whatever be ur guy if he love u like u do to him .So tell this to ur parents and tell them that u know what to do and what not to do in ur life. Let ur parents know that u to have the right to love someone. and u have grown up . IF u love him then EVERYTHING IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR.right then show up ur inner love for ur boyfrnd to ur parents and so to the world only if it's true love .ALL D BEST
2007-03-16 08:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by kats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st take deep breath seat silently that y did ur parents said he is not a good guy those they no any thing about this guy u c parents experienced n know world better then us so better follow what they say
u just go to ur parents talk to them in an very nice manner tell them ? u feel about this guy make them understand that this guy is an good guy if u know it for sure
and then talk to ur bf ask him to come n talk to ur parent n make them understand that he is not a bad guy
if he talks to ur parents n clears his doupt then no prob if there is any thing wrong with that persons character ur parents will surely find it out
so just lesson to them
2007-03-16 06:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by shabana o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be fully clear tht how the person is ur boyfrnd.if he is a good guy and u both hv the right age,then u should expain it to ur parents and could also give the security tht u both really love each other and will also marry in future.
2007-03-16 02:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's gonna be a tough decision for u to make but you're gonna have to weigh out what ur parents are looking at and weigh out ur feelings and see what u feel is gonna be the best for u and take it from there.
2007-03-16 03:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by BayArea111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear listen to your parents there will be something in what they say. Parents just dont say things simply. They would have found out something wrong with the guy.
2007-03-16 03:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by anand_e_j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone like me Rev. Rene !! Your parents will be so happy to see a handsome, funny, smart, and witty man , that your mother will feel like she's 16 again, then they won't have any problems with your boyfriend!!!!!!! But I'm taken!!! I already have an INDIAN PRINCESS!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-16 08:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened between me and my last and ended with them making her choose me or them. She made the best choice for herself although I don't think she realized after time they would see how happy we made one another and would become accepting of us getting married. You have to follow your heart here and make the best choice for yourself. I am waiting for her to this day. Its sad when its so true and so right and that happens to come between. Only you know if it is true and what is the right choice here, good luck and I am sorry your going through this.
-NmD!
2007-03-16 02:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i know its pretty tough.....its the same with me ..can u please specify your age??...sometimes parents are damn right and u should take their advice but sometimes they overreact with this word "dating and guys" so u can just go and talk to them n ask them what is the reason of their prejudice against ur boyfriend....a discussion is always a gud way out.....n babes best of luck....my wishes are with u
2007-03-16 09:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by ~~*NiTuM*~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? if your old enough i would tell your parents hey listen i really like this guy and i think hes right for me and they cant do anything about it....if your young like 13 14 they can do something about it
2007-03-16 02:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋