Just out of curiosity guys, let's say if you had a sis. what kind of guy would you approve for her? What are the qualities he must have? Let me know your opinion...I'm sure others can learn from it!
2007-03-15 19:30:46 · 13 answers · asked by AroseC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has to seem genuine, if he seems like he is reserved or anything like that i would have a feeling like he is trying to hide somthing and that totally isnt cool. he has to be respectful to his friends, and most of all, to his family. if he cant treat his family right(ESPECIALLY his mother, sisters, or other females in his family) how could i ever think he would give my sister the respect she deserves?
he would need to be on top of things, if hes out of school he should have a good job, but if hes still in school then as long as hes doing somthing w/ his life then he would pass that requirement. he dosnt have to be rich or good looking, but he has to be a fun person to hang out w/, and he shouldnt be afraid to hang out with his girlfriends brothers, cousins, or anyone else in the family. my older sisters husband is great, actually ive known him longer then she did (i went to boy scouts w/ him) hes nice, funny, successful and just about perfect for my sister. not to mention, he was a great friend of the family even before they were married, and to this day he's a good friend of mine. right now, my younger sisters kind of young to be dating, so she hasnt brought a boyfriend home yet, but you can be assured, he will either be a great guy for her, or he will have a dent in his skull in the forseeable future. as an older brother, i feel its my responsibility to make sure that no scumbags get near my sister maybe im too protective but hey, i love my sis and i have to make sure that she dosnt get involved w/ an asshole, guys are much better at judging the quality of guys then girls are, just like girls are better at judging girls.
2007-03-15 19:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by somedude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than anything if it were my sis (she's my twin actually) he'd have to be able to take care of her. Most definitely be respectful, and be cool to the whole family. He should be outgoing, fun, and if he ever abused her in any way, mentally or physically, he'd get his *** beat down. So basically a nice guy who will treat her right. Looks don't really matter to me, he could be ugly as a monster, I don't really care as long as she's happy.
2007-03-16 02:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by pyroman162 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, a guy who is friendly not shy. A guy who they already know a little something about. But most of all a guy who i can tell will treat her right. he needs to be there for her when she needs him but not there to be run over by her. it is kind of complicated. most guys dont want their sis dating anyone who is like him. Mainly because i can see my own flaws and i am more likely to see those flaws in other guys. Just someone who is going to give everything he has to her and be honest and trust worthy.
2007-03-16 02:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go beyond looks in order to determine quality (similar to buying a used car). If you want to judge quality, concentrate more on the mind than the physical appearance.
2007-03-16 02:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by liberty11235 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I must know how to relate with that guy. Maybe if I can be treated as a brother by him for he will be part of the family in the future.
2007-03-16 02:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kresnik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should think that it is your sister's choice and no one can have a say in it. If you must know, then I think the boy should come from a good family background, good education, average home, loves animals and enjoys good company and someone easy to talk to.
2007-03-16 02:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's gotta be respectful. i don't care how CUTE he is or how big his johnson is or how much money's he's got. It's all about the respect he shows for a lady, especially my sis. He's gotta be smart, not stupid so he can drink and drive or try to rape her. He's gotta be patient. It's all the inside qualities that i care about, she can decide on the looks.
2007-03-16 02:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by habibionfire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is tough to answer.
I never look at person build even if their BMI is off the hook. Personality, character their goals in life-completions. Paying very very very close attention to emotions. Everyone is so different I hope this helps.
2007-03-16 02:39:53 · answer #8 · answered by animatelifeforce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy who will be faithfull to her. not to play her heart and the guy who can make her happy of course. you don't have to worry cause what's best from us doesn't have to be best for her, so let her decide by herself which guy is good for her. in my opinion quality guy is the guy she love
2007-03-16 02:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by Jevalina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look first of all i wud trust my sis on her chosen one but i wud only hope she gets some1 who loves her a lot n will keep her happy thus loyalty
2007-03-16 02:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by antish_r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋